Well, I have been a hunting widow, a fishing widow, a working-on-the-log-cabin widow, an auto auction widow, and Lord knows what all else.
And tonight I am alone because Glen is spending the night in the intensive care unit with his friend so that his friend's wife can go home and sleep in her own bed and just...have a moment. Since last Monday I don't think she's hardly left the hospital and as we all know, if you don't take care of yourself, you certainly can't take care of anyone else.
It was one week ago today that Glen and his friend were out on the Gulf.
One week.
I don't think things have changed much as to his friend's condition. Glen sent me a picture yesterday of the IV bags they have with meds and fluids and nutrition running into his veins and I could count at least twelve.
I believe he's on six different antibiotics because they're still not sure what the infectious agent is and it's possible it's not even bacterial, but viral, and that would require an entirely different treatment. Maybe they got results back from lab tests today. As I've said, I'm only getting this information third or fourth hand.
I remember when Glen's sister was in the ICU many years ago, and how he would spend the night with her, too. Of course there's nothing any of us non-medical people can do in reality but there is great comfort in knowing that if the person in the bed can somehow sense a loving presence beside them, that's enough.
That is enough.
I wish I was half the person, the kind of friend that Mr. Moon is.
But I am not and I spent my day doing a little of this, a little of that. I got my sweeping done, I took the trash. It would appear that the Stillwater Farm Shop is now open. I did not stop and go in. For one thing, I wasn't wearing even a bra-like garment and for another, I had no money on me. After having looked at their newest posts online, I don't think I would have really wanted to buy anything anyway. The shelves where the My Gypsy Soul Boutique kept things like "natural" seashells and homemade soaps and local "art" and...I can't remember...now seem to hold a few small pumpkins, honey, and some other unidentified objects. I see a few tee shirts, a few little mugs, a few mums in pots, and a cooler with what is probably raw milk in it.
I saw a cross on the wall but I saw no eggs. Or produce. Or homemade soap for that matter. Let's face it- the shelves and the shop are mostly empty.
Well, good-luck.
We've gotten more rain and that has caused some rotten branches to drop. I saw this in the front yard.
The photo is deceptive as to size. I filled up the garden cart with its various parts.
Such beautiful lichens, fungi, and mosses.
And then there's this mushroom, growing from one of the stumps where I feed the crows.
And I finally set everything else aside and got out Dottie-Frances and my paints and brushes and that was the best.
I work slowly and yet, my lines and my colors are still untidy.
But.
As I said the other day, that's me.
I guess I'll go make myself some supper.
Love...Ms. Moon








You are a good steward of the growing things.
ReplyDeleteAlso a good partner for sharing your guy with so many others. Everyone who goes to hospital as a patient needs an advocate! Glenn is a good one to have on board. Next time I land in hospital I am sending for him, OK?
The moss and lichen are beautiful and healthy! I found three bags full at the thrift store to use under elves and fairies and birds, when I make them. I am thinking to make a fairy house diorama one of these days.
Carry on, dear heart. Alone with Maurice...we know who is boss don't we.
Blogger is still being dumb....I am sure you have noticed.
Just don't land in the hospital, okay? Seriously. But sure, if you do, call on Glen. It would be like having your own bodyguard.
DeleteI can't even comprehend buying lichen and moss but why not? It's beautiful stuff.
Maurice is boss. Always and forever.
Mary,
ReplyDeleteI am delighted by Dottie-Francis! Can’t wait to see her finished. Those lips!👄
My fishes all seem to have lips.
DeleteAre you trying to paint those lines in one steady stroke as you would a pencil on paper? Not sure how to explain this but try a series of light touch small strokes with minimal paint on your brush, as in stroke onto the line for a couple of mm (eighth of an inch?) then repeat to the end of the line. Takes a bit longer, but gets a finer finish.
ReplyDeleteI hope Glen is also taking care of himself while caring for the friend.
It's amazing how many different mosses, fungi and lichen can all inhabit the same branch at the same time.
No, honey. I'm not trying to paint the lines in one stroke. I promise you. On the other hand, I'd like to finish this fish before the end of this session.
DeleteGlen really isn't taking care of himself that well unless you count spending all day on a tractor in 95 degree heat a sort of self-care.
When a branch is dying, all the elements that are part of a decaying process take advantage. It's pretty cool, isn't it?
The close-ups are incredible. Like looking at a forest.
ReplyDeleteDottie-Francis is a joy.
Keeping Glen in my thoughts. I hope he gets some rest, too.
I love being able to see what these lichens and things look like under magnification. It really is amazing.
DeleteDottie Frances is making me pretty happy.
Glen said he got some sleep last night. Hard to believe but he did.
Glen sounds like such a wonderful person. And as Mitchell said above, I hope he gets some rest too.
ReplyDeleteHe's a very fine man. As I know you and Mitchell both are too.
DeleteThat was a kind thing for Glen to do. I'm guessing his friend has sepsis which is scary.
ReplyDeleteYour fishy plate is so sweet. I'm looking forward to seeing it fired.
No. Not sepsis. Encephalitis. Scary as shit. Still unresponsive. They're really working hard to try and figure this out and get the right treatment going.
DeleteI'm looking forward to seeing this plate/platter fired too.
We are getting rain as well and everything is looking refreshed. You must have warmth and humidity along with rain to get all the interesting fungi, mosses and mushrooms growing.
ReplyDeleteThe rain is pruning dead wood from the trees on my property too.
Our burning piles will be getting bigger.
Infection that has entered the blood stream is very serious. What does the Infectious Disease doc say? He's likely the one calling the shots. Glen is a good advocate and I'm sure this guy's wife appreciates his efforts and support.
Susan
Well, part of our many types of fungal and moss and lichen growth occurs on dead and dying branches or trees. We have had rain in the last couple of days which probably hydrated those things on that limb enough to have enough weight to pull it down but they've been there for a long while.
DeleteAnd yes, trees often self-prune, don't they?
It's more of a neurological thing going on.Caused by an infectious agent. Different doctors seem to have varying opinions on what that is.
Bless Glen for going and staying the night so the wife could go home and get a full night's sleep. When Gregg had his lung removed he was in the cardiac ICU for 5 days. I only got a few hours of sleep at a time, never a full night, and by the time he came home I was so sleep deprived that the whole experience was way more stressful for me than it had to be. When and if Glen's friend comes home, his wife will be able to care for him so much better if she's had some rest and some time away from the hospital. You really can't pour from an empty cup.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a good, good man.
It's such a conundrum- when your dearest and most beloved loved ones are in ICU, you have such a compulsion to be with them every minute but really, you aren't doing them any favors because what you said is so true- you can't pour from an empty cup.
DeleteHe's a good man. That's all. Thank you for the lichens and fungi, lovely signs of life. Blogger has stopped feeding and finding blogs is now hit or miss, as is reading them, bear with me.
ReplyDeleteNo worries! I am not of the opinion that each and every one of my blog posts must necessarily be read by everyone.
DeleteIt's so dry here still that even the lichens are dried up and those are some really beautiful examples. I love that feathery pale green. I've had two big branches, not quite limbs, fall this week. Finally got them cut up and over to the burn pile but we are still under a burn ban.
ReplyDeleteGlen is a good man and a good friend.
Oh gosh, I love that feathery pale green too.
DeleteI think we're off the burn ban here but ironically, the burn pile is a little too wet at the moment to burn!
Glen is the right one. I'm so glad we found each other.
What life there is in your pictures!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteI love the photos of the lichen and fungi, etc.
ReplyDeleteSo nice of Mr. Moon to stay with his friend. Hope they figure out how to help his friend.
Something strande is happenning to your things I read blogs they are about 3 days late or don't come up.
ReplyDeleteI think that blogger isn't updating blog lists in general.
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