I took this picture of Lis yesterday as we were leaving the studio of a luthier friend of hers who made Lis an octave mandolin some years ago but who had the instrument to make some improvements on it and to use as a demonstration of her work. It is a beautiful instrument. Her name is Rose. The mandolin, not the luthier whose name is Debra.
I love that picture. The live oak in front of that pretty stucco house with the tidy yard- it's just so emblematic of old Tallahassee in some ways. Debra's studio and that little house are across the street from what is called Lake Ella in Tallahassee even though it is actually more of a large pond but it's been right there for many, many years, a place for people to bring their kids to play by the water and feed the ducks, bring picnics, or walk around the perimeter for health or relaxation.
There used to a motor court by the lake called, Lake Ella Motor Court, of course.
The buildings are still there, now repurposed as cute little shops.
Debra grew up in the house her studio is in now and I so wish I had had the courage to ask if I could take a picture of her in that shop, surrounded by her tools and stringed instrument parts and work tables and instruments she's working on, instruments she's finished. I am shy around her though. She never remembers me but I remember her from when she was the partner of a midwife I worked with at the Birth Centre, back when Lily was a toddler. She was then the Tallahassee fire chief and yes, I was intimidated. And of course I remember her.
Lis and I had a fine day yesterday. The boys took off for some Tom dealings. Glen had an appointment with the attorney and then he and Lon went out to Tom's so that Lon could look at some of the guitars Tom had stashed in one of his several sheds to give him an idea of their possible value. I hear that was a rather traumatic experience.
Can you say hoarder?
And when I say hoarder, I do not mean someone who has too many tea towels or tablecloths stuffed in a closet. No. I mean the sort of hoarder whose things, when explored after their death, leave one in desperate need of a shower and a good, hot, sterilization of the clothing worn.
Enough of that.
Before Lis and I went to Debra's, we met Hank and Rachel, Anna, Taylor, May and Michael at the Indian buffet for lunch. Mark made a quick appearance but could not stay to eat. Hank made me laugh so much, telling stories about what a wacko mother I had been. And oh, seeing Anna and Taylor was just a joy. And May and Michael too. Hank was on Cloud Nine, it being the day before his grand fete was to begin. He was bubbling with the joy of it. So much so that both Lis and I had the same thought this morning which was that we should go to the place the whole group was meeting up to head down to the coast just to wish them well and give them a fond farewell.
Okay, so Lis actually thought about the fact that we should have made them a cake which never crossed my mind but Lis is a much better human than I am as well as a far superior cake baker.
Anyway, after the lunch and visit to Debra's we got coffee at a little place on the lake and then we went to a thrift store which was close by. I didn't buy a thing but Lis bought a few tiny things that she can use in her hat making. And if all that weren't enough, we went to Publix to pick up things for supper. She wanted to make chicken enchiladas and I am so glad she did. They were delicious! And the supper the night before had been pretty darn good too. A lot of stuff out of the garden and the Gulf. As Glen said, he'd never seen four such big plates of food devoured so quickly.
Jessie's childhood best friend (and starter husband), said once about biscuits, "I hog them down." This came to mind as we did indeed hog that down.
This morning they packed up and we all went to Waffle House for our ritual last-morning breakfast. There were eggs and a waffle and raisin toast and bacon and sausage and grits and hash browns, all perfectly seasoned with Waffle House's very own special grease and plenty of salt.
You can't beat it!
Today is Lis and Lon's 47th wedding anniversary so they were ready to get home and have their own celebration. It was hard to see them go but I was so glad to have been able to spend time with them. It had been way too long but as it always with good friends, it's like no time has passed when you come back together, no matter how long it's been.
And today I have been a lazy sloth. You know how unused to socializing I am and I have needed a recharge. I picked some peas, I put my puzzle back in the dining room and worked on that for awhile. I caught up on blogs (mostly) and then I shelled peas. I have GOT to let these peas get bigger before I pick them. I know, I know. I keep saying this but it is so true.
You see this?
That represents about two hours of pea shelling. I am not kidding you. And yes, if you buy them at a farmer's market, you're going to be paying about five thousand dollars a quart but that pitiful less-than-half-a-quart is ridiculous. I have to let them mature more which makes the shelling easier and the peas bigger. I am talking to myself here. I know that no one reading this needs to know this information.
I think Glen's going to head over to the cabin tomorrow and I've got pottery. I shall be interested to see if my leaf platter has been fired and if my fish bowl is dry enough to be put on the shelf to go into the kiln. We have gotten rain on and off. It stormed nicely yesterday but today has been mostly all threat and no real rain but everything looks so very green and it's a little cooler so I'm not complaining.
Here's what my tabasco peppers are doing right now.
As you can see there on the right, the Seminole pumpkin is threatening to swallow them as it has swallowed some of the field peas and yet, still, not a bloom one.
Ah well. I am enjoying the very essence of their vitality in just those beautiful vining leaves. Still, I would not mind getting a pumpkin or two out of the deal.
The crows are still returning every day. They are now aware that they don't need to caw at me to get me to come out and sprinkle their meal worms on the stumps. I am at their service.
Here's Maurice, trying to pretend that it's me she loves while we both know she was just reminding me to get up and give her her morning Temptations.
She has not changed her evil ways in the least. She bit me this morning on the hand. I will admit I yelled at her. Loudly. I should be commended for not smacking her too.
Sigh. I must tell you that I offered Maurice to Lis and Lon to take home if they wanted because obviously, that would make her happy. Sadly, they assured me that no, they really weren't interested. They made some excuse like how being "pet free" suited them now but I am afraid that even with her obvious affection for Lis, they have not been charmed nearly enough for that.
And so it goes. It was wonderful having the Williamsons here and now life goes on as it does. The Hank is Fifty crew has gotten to their house and it would appear that all is well. I am hoping they have the very, very best time. I think they will.
I wonder what Hank's next big project will be.
I am sure that Rachel is wondering the same thing.
Life is funny, isn't it? We all have such different needs and such different things make us happy. Some of us long for travel in foreign lands, some of us for projects that require our time and energy and love, some of us are pretty darn content to sit on the back porch and listen to the cicadas and the frogs beginning to tune up for their evening song, wondering how long it will take for our peas to swell up to the perfect size to pick.
Be well, y'all. Cherish all the love that comes your way, notice and appreciate the littlest things, laugh at whatever you can find to laugh at, and oh, you know- look up.
Love...Ms. Moon





That was funny, trying to palm off Maurice on Lis! Nice try. Also a great visit. Does Debra have a website? Maybe we can explore without disturbing her
ReplyDeleteHer full name is Debra Amesqua and you can search for her. I am going to try and embed a video I found online in my post this evening. She is so beautiful and so passionate. The link to the video is
Deletehttps://www.instagram.com/reels/DYFyZbhN7In/
But baby peas are sweeter! My sister is "that" kind of hoarder, I'm the one with too many teatowels etc.
ReplyDeleteThat last-morning breakfast would have kept me going without more food for the rest of the day! So much food! My sons who work in factories would be more likely to eat that, but I eat a small bowl of hot porridge, maybe a one cup measure or a bit more and then I'm full.
These are not that sort of peas. They're what we call field peas. They could be dried and stored and kept to cook later such as black beans or pinto beans but I freeze them after a quick blanching and they are always delicious.
DeleteNo one person ate all of that food! That was like a conglomeration of what we all had between us. I personally had an egg, a piece of toast, some hash browns, and a piece of bacon which is more than I usually eat for breakfast.
That's a relief! I was imagining you all rolling around like tele-tubbies for an hour or so with stuffed bellies.
DeleteAs I said in my last post about Maurice....the party ain't over....and there you go.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you had a wonderful time with Liz and her husband. It sounded delightful and the food scrumptious! A winning combination.
That oak tree with moss and Liz...well, about as southern as Gone with the Wind.
Paranormal John
Isn't that just a gorgeous picture? Sometimes the photo just begs to be taken.
DeleteWe will probably be hanging out with Maurice for a long time to come. I really do hope so, despite the fact that she's insane.
Good to hear your visit with Lon and Lis was memorable....as these visits always are. That photo of Lis under that tree with the Mandolin case is just beautiful. I guess I've never seen a Tabasco pepper....I didn't realize they were all standing *erect*...LOL. and make note to self.....*YOURSELF...let peas grow larger before picking*
ReplyDeleteSusan M
Yep. Tabasco's do indeed stand up. They are very pretty peppers, glossy and striking in color.
DeleteSo wonderful to spend time with dear friends. I love it but don’t do well anymore with overnight guests, no matter how much i love them. I hope Hank Day is a blast. Would love to hear Hank’s stories about you.
ReplyDeleteOne has to really love and adore people to have them stay overnight, right?
DeleteI love Hank's stories because they make me sound very much mama-like but sort of hysterical at the same time.
Thanks for this post, lots of your life well described, from missing pumpkins to the hoarder friend. I am going to use your last phrase as a quote sometime, such good wishes. And back atcha!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Barbara! I really appreciate your reading here, your comments.
DeleteI would have needed to do some recharging myself with all of the things you were doing. I need my down time! Your last paragraph is perfect advice for anyone and everyone, and a great way for me to start the day on a positive note!
ReplyDeleteSometimes I have to preach to myself. You know?
DeleteSounds like a wonderful visit. I searched your blog to find your posts about Hank's birthday and it was fun to read about all of the celebrations you have had over the years to celebrate him. Amazing to see all of the photos of your family and how they have grown up so quickly! So much love shines through!
ReplyDeleteI sometimes wonder just how many birthday parties I've had for my kids and how many cakes I've baked for birthdays over the years and all I can figure is- A LOT! We do love to celebrate a birthday around here. How sweet of you to search for more Hank birthdays.
DeleteI used to be extremely shy but I've gotten over that. Even so, socializing wears me out. Sounds like a great time, as usual, with Lis and Lon. I should go to the Peach Creek Market and get some cream peas already shelled and frozen.
ReplyDeleteYes. Pay for those cream peas. Whatever they cost- they will be worth it.
DeleteI don't think I'm shy. I think I've just become very much a person who requires a whole lot of alone time.
Spending time together with long-standing friends is always the best. You all share lots of history and truly seem like the best of friends. You are lucky to have each other.
ReplyDeleteI know nothing about picking and shelling peas but if waiting for the peas to mature makes the job easier, it seems worth the wait. I've likely never tasted freshly picked and prepared peas.
Debra sounds like a fascinating and very capable individual. Her home and workshop must be amazing. Living in her childhood home on the water sounds ideal.
Lis is right, dropping in on Hank's shindig would be fun.
Gosh, we do share a lot of history. Over thirty years of it, I just realized. The four of us together and Lis and I alone with each other. I used to be so much more fun than I am now.
DeleteFreshly picked field peas of all kinds are truly delicious. Here's a little article about them. https://www.southernliving.com/food/field-peas
I think the ones we've planted this year are zipper peas and lady peas.
Debra doesn't live in her studio. She has a separate home which I think is on some property.
I haven't heard from Hank and Company today but I'm sure they're doing great.
Sounds like a wonderful time with Lis (and Lon). She surely got you out and about, but like you, I would need quite a bit of alone time to recharge after all that socialization.
ReplyDeleteAnd I agree about the hoarder situation. When my D-i-L's stepfather died (he was only in his 50s) it was truly traumatic trying to clear out all he had left--not just in his house, but also in three cars full from the floorboards to the roof (only one was drivable and only the driver's seat was accessible) -- every conceivable item you can imagine. Likewise, there were multiple storage units in the same condition--mold, mildew, infestations of all kinds. Among the items, thousands of unopened/unsealed CDs of various artists. It was beyond sad. He'd been such a nice man, but clearly, so troubled.
The mother of my stepfather (I hate typing that word in relation to him) was a bad hoarder. There was one small path from the door to a couch which was mostly covered with stuff but had just enough space for her to lie down on. Like the car you described with just enough room for someone to sit in the driver's seat. And yes, every bit of that old shit is mostly destroyed by damp and rodents and insects.
DeleteI wonder if hoarding is a result of some sort of mental illness or if it's merely a thing some people have. Like a genetic thing?
Sounds like a wonderful visit with friends and family. Happy early birthday to Hank:)
ReplyDeleteOh, Hank's actual birthday was June 10. But this is the big celebration.
Delete