As I've said before, I consider the hallway of this house to be an entirely separate room and it really is. It's one of those hallways that goes from the front doors to the back doors in a straight line and it has four rooms coming off of it, two on each side. And also, the hallway is where the staircase lives.
And the hallway is what I concentrated on today.
Now before we go any farther, let me explain that this sudden interest in cleaning is due to the fact that Lon and Lis are coming to stay on Sunday and although I know they don't really care at all about the dust and mildew and peeling paint, as I've told Lis- I'm embarrassed.
So I'm trying to just do a little bit of cleaning but of course once you get started on a project like this, suddenly everything that needs to be done is magnified to the point where it all seems hopeless. Also, in my current winnowing mood, that enters into the picture and so what should take about half an hour turns out to take all day and although I did put a good amount of things in the donate pile, none of it was anything that made a difference in how things look.
Such as music CD's which I've always kept in the drawers of the sort of hallway altar.
They are mostly empty now, those drawers, and it was not easy getting rid of those CD's because music is so personal and has played such an important role in my life that each and every one of them held memories of how I felt when I listened to those songs whether it was joyful and made me want to dance or something that got me through a hard time.
Now I'm thinking I should go get those CD's out of the trunk of my car and put them back into the drawers. I THINK I still have a CD player.
Oh hell. I suck at this.
But now my hallway smells of Fabuloso and vinegar and furniture polish and that's nice at least. I only have about nine other rooms I need to get to including the bathrooms. I think the library is going to have to stay as it is. I tidied up a few things in the dining room but honestly, I haven't barely even made a start there.
I still can't figure out where to put my little Chinese man and woman lamps. They look terrific on the hallway table but it's just too much of a culture clash with La Reina de Mexico and she ain't going nowhere. There are two places in the dining room where they'd look swell but one of those places already has two lamps on it which I shall not move because they were on my grandfather's dresser. The sideboard in that room would also make a very nice home for them but I have a lamp in that place that May gave me for Christmas one year that I ADORE and I don't want to move it.
It's so blue and so round and the shade doesn't really seem to go with it and yet, it's somehow genius perfect.
Sigh.
No. That lamp, like the Virgin of Guadalupe, is not going anywhere.
I've been trying to think of places I could shuffle lamps around but so far I have not been able to figure it out.
So that's my entire, entirely boring day. Pottery tomorrow and I have a fairly long list of things I need to do afterwards so I won't have much time to attend to anything else.
Glen has spent another day on Tom's issues and isn't home yet. It's a good thing we'll be heading to NC in a few weeks. We need to get out of town and be sweethearts and traveling buddies. You'd think after retirement and being empty-nesters and all of that stuff, we'd have a lot more time to relax. Do fun things like head to the coast for a day or go visit a spring we've never been to or hell, just drive the eight miles or whatever it is to the Wacissa but no, it seems like every minute, at least lately, has been filled with should-do's and must-do's. Being away from home is a guarantee that at least we won't be looking at weeds that need pulling or grass that needs mowing or friends that need tending in legal, health-care, and other related ways.
One time when Lis was a young mother and her son was being rather difficult, she asked an older neighbor lady if it got easier as the child got older.
The old lady paused and then she said, "Well, it gets different."
And isn't that life?
Here's a picture of the strawberry shortcake I served Mr. Moon last night.
Love...Ms. Moon




i've had a car without a CD player for 3 years now and it it took me 2 years to go through my CDs and donate them..... I feel you. I am sorry to hear about tom's downturn but glad he has a village to get him through to the next place he needs to be. xxalainaxx
ReplyDeleteTom doesn't exactly have a village. No family at all and at the moment, only two real friends. Luckily, those two friends are the best he could have.
DeleteI have two cases of Cd's that belonged to my youngest daughter. I will never play them, but I cannot quite bring myself to get rid of them.
ReplyDeleteI hear you, honey.
DeleteHEAVEN.ON.A.PLATE. Even on a GLP-1, I would eat the whole plate for my meal and be SO satisfied!! Like the tomato tart, strawberry shortcake is something, for me, that must be eaten at least once while in season. I think this will be on my July 4th menu.
ReplyDeleteI have all my CD's stuffed in the hall closet. Such damn good music. I just can't part with them yet. I get it.
I adore that lamp that May gave you, one of my absolute favorites! I think the blue lamp and brown shade look great together. Keep shuffling stuff around, you'll figure it out, but that lamp definitely stays!
Angie D
You're right. It is disrespectful to life itself not to eat delicious foods, at least once, during their seasons. What could be better than strawberry shortcake on the 4th of July?
DeleteIsn't that lamp just perfect?
Your Hallway, Staircase and Front Entrance are Magnificent, they don't build Homes like that any more, a pity.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know where you'd find the old growth wood with which to build.
DeleteI find lamps very challenging - so many are hideous, or have the wrong shade and the right one is elusive, or they don't give good light. We have a fairly satisfying collection except for one my mom gave my husband which is hideous, gives bad light and has a wonky shade, I can't explain it. Sounds like you are adept at letting things find their place! And your hall looks delightful, wide enough to be comfortable and like a walk through cabinet of curiosities. Hope pottery is fun tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteCeci
Not all lamps are created equal! And tastes vary, too.
DeleteI do let things tell me where they want to be for the most part.
I love that hallway.
Pottery was okay!
Oh yes there’re so many decisions to be made, just when cleaning and sorting to “lighten up your life” a bit. Almost all CDs are gone from my life. Not sure why about 5 could not be given away. My CD player broke a year ago too, so that helped. Great looking cake! Have fun potting!
ReplyDeleteCleaning and sorting are the hardest things for me.
DeleteI can totally understand not letting go of each and every CD.
That's the problem with winnowing. It's not just stuff. It's meaningful in many ways. If you get attached to stuff, it's like family!
ReplyDeleteSo true. So very, very true. Or at least the very best of friends.
DeleteYour hallway floor is so beautiful! Find a room that doen't have any lamps and put the two little ones there. Maybe on that laundry folding table? On a porch? I still have my CDs but they are packed in a storage bag and stuffed into a big old trunk in the back porch because I needed that shelf space for books, many of which have since gone to a thrift shop or "little library" but I don't think the CDs will be coming back inside.
ReplyDeleteI don't have a room with no lamps. I hate overhead lighting and besides, the ceilings are too high for that to be practical. I thought about the folding table. Somehow I'm not feeling that.
DeleteYou are doing a gradual release of the CD's. That's smart.
your hallway, to me, has always been something of great beauty. the gorgeous floors,the piano, the lighting....oh......be still my heart. Maybe Lis can help you find a place to re-locate your lamps during her visit? So happy you will get to see them.........
ReplyDeleteSusan M
Lis is never shy to give her opinion. And she is often correct.
DeleteThe hallways is a beauty, isn't it?
That shortcake looks yummy.
ReplyDeleteI still have about 20 of my favorite CDs stashed in a closet -- including the first CD I ever bought, "Sunshine Superman" by Donovan. Even though I have all the music on my iTunes, I can't quite bring myself to get rid of them. (In fact I moved them to London!)
I understand, Steve. I truly do.
DeleteNothing boring. I get the stress and anxiety. But oh the scent of fabulosa. I am in love with your house… and you. Jerry just read this post and says he understands why I feel the way I do about you.
ReplyDeleteAw. Jerry is a sweetheart. Of course. If he wasn't, you two would not be together.
DeleteI am the same way that you are when it comes to cleaning. Sometimes I get overwhelmed by it all, and there's always a little birdie on the back of my shoulder whispering in my ear that "it will just get dirty again." Having two dogs compounds the dirt. I get used to it, but when company is coming, I start to freak out a little bit. The shortcake looks so delicious!
ReplyDeleteAnd you know what? It WILL get dirty again. But hey- we make a meal and clean up from it and guess what? We get hungry again. It's all so never ending.
DeleteDogs can indeed add to the general mess. Cats too. It seems to me that Maurice's fur got longer this past winter than it ever was and she's still shedding.
We expect company on Sunday and I'm going through the same motions. A basic tidy up is becoming a project because, as we know and on good authority, I have too much shit. However, thanks to you I finally went to the dollar store and got me some Fabuloso. I still have too much shit, but it smells like heaven in here. I think your house is gorgeous and perfect but I get it. A bit of shuffling is exhausting but good for the soul.
ReplyDeleteHaha! You and me both, honey! If your mother came here and looked around she would tell me the same thing.
DeleteTo me, Fabuloso is the official scent of Mexico. They use it for all sorts of cleaning. Which makes me love it even more. I dilute it with a lot of water and add white vinegar and I think it works wonderfully well.
When I realize that I never even notice certain objects in the house, I realize it's time to either move them or get rid of them. What's the point?
I'm going to call that shortcake about as decadent as my waffles. Please keep your music. It breaks my heart to not have all the CD's and records that I used to have. I somehow thought that getting all my music on an MP3 player would be the same. I don't even know where the player is anymore. And I am jealous that you have too many lamps. I've been looking for lamps for my living room and just can't find anything that suits my fancy.
ReplyDeleteExcept that the shortcake has no chocolate or maple syrup! But serving it with bacon would not be a bad idea. The perfect meal.
DeleteIt has taken me a lifetime to get the lamps I love. Most of them have come from thrift stores and you know that is a very, very long process.
I still have all my CDs and no CD player. I uploaded a lot of them but not all by far and now computers don't come with a CD player. You should probably take the lamps to the cabin which was the original intent. Don't second guess yourself. Everytime I do, it's a mistake.
ReplyDeleteAnd that hallway is called a dogtrot. There was a house one street over from my old house in the city that had a dog trot and I always wished it had been for sale when I was house hunting because that would have been the one. The people who bought it totally destroyed it imo, they remodeled it taking out the dogtrot hallway.
Well, with the lamps I don't think Glen really feels nearly as drawn to them as I do so would that really be a good idea? We'll see.
DeleteYep. A dog trot. Not to be confused with a shotgun shack. The air really does flow nicely through the double doors when they are open.
People can sure fuck up a good house, can't they?
CDs. I amassed a good collection by joining a CD club (buy 2, get 10 free), then I'd quit the club, and they would offer me the same deal. We did that over and over. My husband tells my I could find all my music on Spotify, but I'd miss looking through them and finding ones I've forgotten. Go get yours out of the car. And stay cool.
ReplyDeleteI remember that CD deal. It started out as a record club, didn't it? Same deal though.
DeleteI keep thinking about your advice to get mine out of the car and bring them back in. I think I might. I'll give them a good going through, though, and some of them will be donated.
From time to time I go through the CDs to choose ones I just don't need to keep. I put them in a box, and then I keep them anyway,
DeleteSprucing things up before company arrives seems to be a common response. One year before my British relatives arrived, I had walls painted.
ReplyDeleteI have lots of stuff, but no CD's.
My closets are in desperate need of a good declutter. They hide a multitude of treasures/sins. Think, when in doubt, put it in a closet!
The strawberry shortcake looks phenomenal!
Enjoy your time with Liz and Lon.
Damn. I wish Glen would decide that our walls need painting. I think he probably has but just doesn't want to do anything about it.
DeleteSigh.
Our closets (and we have quite a few) are all filled. Every now and then I try to do clean-outs but whatever progress I made gets negated before very long. You should see Glen's hunting closet. It is also the needs-to-be-ironed closet. Lord almighty. It's a mess.
Cleaning for company is usually about the only time I really DO clean. I will serve Strawberry/blueberry shortcake for 4th of July. Thanks for the idea!
ReplyDeleteMaybe the room that Lis and Lon will stay in is the room that needs those lamps? ;)