Sunday, September 21, 2025

Unexpected But Lovely Visits


Well, here's the only picture I took today and it's not a good picture and you've seen the same image a million times. And the funny thing is- THREE of my grandchildren came by today and I did not take one picture of any of them! 

Vergil texted us after we'd finished our traditional Sunday morning breakfast with biscuits and grits and eggs and asked if we'd like a little visit. He had the boys out of the house so Mama could sleep. She worked last night and is working again tonight. I told him that of course we'd love to see them and they showed up soon after. Glen was working on pulling roots out of his beautiful rows and I was planting some seeds when they got here. It was past lunch time and although Mr. Moon and I surely did not need or want any, the Weatherford boys were as hungry as, well, as hungry as little boys their age can be. I offered to make some sandwiches for them and before I could even ask what kind they wanted, Levon said, "You know what I want!" 
And yes, I did. I make the meanest peanut butter, honey, and raisin sandwich you'd ever want to eat. 
Especially for grandchildren. 
Okay, actually? Grandchildren are the only people I make these sandwiches for these days. Levon likes mine especially because I do not skimp on any of the ingredients and it's probably like eating a peanut butter candy sandwich and what would be the problem with that? 
You know why grandparents spoil their grandchildren? 
First of all, because they can. Secondly, and quite possibly the most important reason- we want them to love us the best. Not better than Mom and Dad, but better than anyone else. Sugar is an important part of the strategy here and that's all there is to it.
August wanted cheese toast and so I made up a bunch of those and the peanut butter, honey, and raisin ones, and cut up some apples because nutrition is important, and that was all devoured. 

August helped me do some planting. He asked if there was any way I could make rows that would mimic the colors of the rainbow and I said that I didn't know how I'd do that but that I did have some rainbow chard he could plant. He also helped me with a second row of mustard greens. And then we planted carrots. 
I loved that he wanted to help. He helps his mountain grandma in North Carolina in her garden which is a true work of art and bountiful piece of ground because she's been working it for decades. Maybe he'll the one to have the urge to grow things when he's an adult. 

And then he asked me to read to him which I immediately agreed to. I asked him what he'd like me to read and he said that he'd brought a book and would like that, please. I'm not up on kid lit at all so I wasn't aware of the series from which this book came. 


It was pretty interesting. Timmy is a kid with autism, although I didn't know that until I just looked the book up. It's quite fanciful with interesting characters (there are illustrations although it is not a graphic novel) and quite a few very, very what I would have called as a child, "hard words." 
I asked August at one point if he knew what all the words meant. He said that he didn't. "Does that bother you?" I asked. 
"Nope," he said. And I'm sure he's getting a general idea of their definitions from the context and I sort of love that. 

So that visit happened and then, later, Owen texted that he and his dad were on their way out to possibly borrow a trailer. Jason is moving back into the house where he and Lily lived before the divorce. It's a long story. He's done a lot of work on the house and I'm sure that moving out of his mom's house is going to be like getting a new lease on life. 
So out they came and I told Owen my new plan to tell him frequently that I knew him when he was hardly taller than a rooster which he found amusing. 
They didn't end up borrowing the trailer which is pretty much a POS but it was nice to see them and get to chat with my boy. Next weekend it is his birthday, him mama's birthday, and Vergil's birthday. Phew! 
So many babies are conceived around Christmas and New Years. 
Just ask any labor and delivery nurse. 
Vergil and Jessie and the boys are actually going to be in St. Augustine with some old friends of theirs but I think we're going to have dinner on Friday night for Owen and then take a boat ride on Saturday for Lily. This is the plan. At this point. 

Good Lord! Look at the time! I have GOT to get in that kitchen to cook our supper. Lane snapper, stewed tomatoes, perhaps a baked potato, and some coleslaw? Maybe? That'll do, right? 
I think so. 

It's been a good Sunday with lots of sweetness and more seeds in the ground. 

I'll take it. 

Love...Ms. Moon


 

31 comments:

  1. Sugar is definitely on the menu when i see my grands. I love them so much and only see them a few times a year. You are so blessed to be so involved!

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    1. I know I am blessed to have them all so close.

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  2. birthday time at the mooners! It will likely. be a fanciful party with loud joyous celebration and maybe bugles tooting! Invite me please!
    Owen shorter than a rooster - look what happens when they are fed!! Holy smokes he did grow to be tall.
    It has been a good sunday here, too, though i hurried out this morning thinking i was late to a doctor appointment...Turns out i was a day and a half early. They were shut...Sunday, silly Linda Sue.

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    1. You are invited!
      I know I talk about Owen's size too much, too much but it's so overwhelming. Like- this just happened overnight. And it's not that he's just so tall. He is a huge man! And I know he is not finished growing.
      It is reassuring to know that other people lose days or gain days too. What day is it? That's hard enough. Forget knowing what the date is. I'm good if I can remember the month.

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  3. Glad for you it was a great day! -Nicol

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  4. Glad for you it was a great day! -Nicol

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  5. I was glad to read about a good day. Where was Mr moon today? I may be missing something.

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    1. Oh- he was here! Right here. He and Vergil and the boys did some crossbow target shooting while they were here.

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  6. Certainly a brighter post than some of late. Maybe you just need a regular schedule of grandchildren visits!

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  7. Our older daughter just left after a good long visit. Her birthday is next Sunday, and we agreed we’d wait until the following weekend to have our family celebration for her and her sister’s husband whose birthday is six days after hers. She was definitely a holiday baby, don’t know what his parents were up to. Margaret

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  8. I remember February as a busy birthday month, both parents, two children and a grand daughter all between Feb 15th and Feb 25th.
    Planting a rainbow bed seems like it would be easy, there are many flowers in all colours of the rainbow, but finding varieties that bloom all at the same time and grow to the same height and width is the tricky part.

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    1. Yes, it would not be that hard to plant a rainbow of flowers except for the issues you pointed out but even here flowers aren't really grown much in the winter. The camellias bloom but they are mostly reds, pinks, whites, and combinations thereof.

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  9. I love your family stories. I’ve never seen this particular garden before. You just made me realize my sister must have been conceived on New Year’s Eve or thereabouts. That was the first new year my parents lived in their own apartment.

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    1. Well that makes sense. I know exactly when Lily was conceived and rather unbelievably, I began experiencing symptoms almost immediately. That had never happened to me before. That child made her presence known before she was an embryo.

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  10. We spoil our grandchildren because we don't have to parent them. Spoil them and send them back. I don't know how much of a winter garden I'm going to have this year. Definitely lettuces and spinach and carrots, should probably plant some cabbage and broccoli.

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    1. Yep- you're so right about sending them home.
      We never do well with spinach, broccoli or cabbage. I do not know why.

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  11. Ah yes, Timmy Failure! I know that series well! Glad you got some family time with the boys. I hope August does indeed grow up to be the gardener of the family.

    Learning words from context is a great way to read, I suspect. I used to do that with Hardy Boys mysteries when I was young.

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    1. There was one word that I read which I wasn't even sure of how to pronounce. I wish I could remember what it was. I also wish August would take me up on my offer of my own, very ancient child's dictionary. It's a good one! Not a kiddy dictionary. A serious one.
      I figured you'd know all about Timmy Failure.

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  12. This is a big B-day month for your family. Multiple celebrations will be good fun.
    Hungry boys need their good snacks/meals, and you MM are always well prepared. Lucky boys.
    August's interest in planting veggies could prove to be a lifelong hobby. Afterall, it is in the genes...on both sides.

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    1. Yes. I always have food on hand for the grands. And they all like different things.
      August is honestly the first child in my family that has shown real interest in gardening. Well, Jessie did, I guess, and she plants in raised beds in her yard now.

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  13. Sounds like a happy day with so many visitors!

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  14. Sounds like a lovely family day.

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  15. Aw! I am so happy you had a perfect day.

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    1. Well, I wouldn't say it was perfect but it was good enough for sure.

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