Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Feeling Better


Well, well. Look who's in this month's edition of Florida Sportsman magazine. Of course they spelled his name wrong. Almost everyone does. The point is, however, that he was so happy in that picture. It was the first triple-tail he ever caught. The family is proud of him. I would also be proud if he caught another triple-tail because those fish are incredibly delicious. 

I did not make it to pottery. When my phone woke me so gently and so melodically this morning at seven, I laid there for a moment and then thought, Oh hell no. Maurice, who was cuddled up next to me added her vocal disapproval of the idea and we both went back to sleep. I did text Jessie and tell her that I simply could not get out of bed at that hour but that if I felt better when I woke up, I'd meet her there. 
I did feel better when I woke up but the idea of getting dressed and going to town and being creative and productive seemed just about impossible so I gave up the idea. As the morning progressed, I felt better and better. My eyes, which had felt achy and flu-like since Monday began to feel like regular eyes again and I even felt like I could get out into the garden and do some more planting. Which I did. I planted collard greens and turnip greens, mixed kales, and arugula. I also did some weeding. It was only about an hour's work but it was hot. However, I felt up to the task and was so happy to get more things planted. 

Another thing I wanted to get done today was the making of the layers for Lily's birthday cake. I'd asked her last week if she wanted me to make her a cake and she said that a mama-made Mississippi Mud cake was always a good thing and so that's what I am making. 
The recipe I use is from this cookbook. 


The copyright date on that is 1987 so the recipes aren't that new but as we all know, a good recipe is a good recipe now and forever. 


This cake is the very definition of "moist". It's almost like a flourless cake. It has flour in it but the ratio of flour to liquid is quite different than in most other cakes. It calls for being baked in a bundt pan and then served with whipped cream or a mixture of semi-sweet chocolate chips melted and mixed with cream or coffee painted on. 
Now that is all well and good but I believe that a birthday cake needs frosting. Know what I mean? And there's a recipe in the same cookbook for a chocolate frosting and I'll be making that. I didn't make a bundt cake but layers instead because it's the spaces in-between layers where you can really up the frosting volume. Know what I mean? 
So I got the cake into three cake pans and I baked them and by golly, they did not come out of the pans very well and there are some, well, gappy places and sort of torn places although I tried with all my jig-saw talent (haha!) to get things back together where they should go. 
Sigh.
I've put all the layers on parchment paper in the freezer so that I'll be able to frost them without completely pulling them apart. Lily's birthday isn't until Saturday so maybe everything will somehow magically work out. I've always said (and my family will attest to the truth of this) that my cakes taste a hell of a lot better than they look. And it is true. I have no idea how many birthday cakes I've made in my life, considering the fact that I have four children and a husband. I think we could safely say there have been hundreds. And honestly- none of them have been gorgeous. But none of them have disappointed in taste. 
And look what I found when I opened the cookbook's cover to find the copyright date.


Neither Lily nor I remember her giving it to me and we think it is possible that I bought it at Goodwill and gave it to her to "give" to me. Mothers do these things sometimes. But that little message in Lily's handwriting is the best present she could have given me. 

I just had a call from August. Vergil has given them a phone to share. All they can do on it is to call and text and play a few games. It's an old phone of his which is about four inches in height. Height? Whatever. It is tiny. As I told August, "Don't swallow it by accident!" 
I've been getting texts from the boys and also calls. These delight me, of course. Sometimes I am not sure which boy sent me which text but sometimes they do identify themselves. That is helpful. 
However, it's not too hard to just pretend I know who's texting. The other day I got a text that said, "I love you soooooooooooo much"
We're not quite there on punctuation yet but their spelling is pretty good. 
I had no idea which of them sent it so I responded, "I love YOU sooooooooooooooo much and I am glad you are my grandson."
Now see? That works for both of them and is the truth whether we are talking about August or Levon. 
Later on in the day I got another text: "I love you this is levon"
I responded, "I love YOU! This is MerMer."
And then, "Love you even more."
To which I replied, "I bet you don't! I love you with all my MerMer heart."
And he said, "Ya I no."

Oh, my MerMer heart. 

So anyway, August and I had a good conversation. He asked me if I knew what Duolingo was. I told him that yes, I did, and he said that he is learning Russian on it and that Levon is learning Spanish. 
Now THIS is a good use of screens. 

Mr. Moon reported this morning that after a good night's sleep he had made a miraculous recovery and was GETTING THINGS DONE! 
Hoo-boy. Of course he was. He has sent me a few pictures this evening. 


And this a little while later.


He is such a very happy man. 

I just checked the news. I don't want to talk about it. Every day, another horror. Or...five or ten or fifty. 

I'm going to go heat up the tofu which I again boiled, air-fried, and made a sauce for. I'm obsessed. I'm not sure I've ever eaten one thing so repeatedly in such a short space of time. I will try and branch out tomorrow. 

Love...Ms. Moon 




36 comments:

  1. So cool about Mr. Moon! He looks very happy! Your grandbabies, clearly, no doubt, adore you. What another good day, finding Lily's handwriting and starting to feel better. -Nicol

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    1. I think Levon and August are so in love with their new phone that they're even using it to text can call me. And I am FINE with that!

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  2. That fish is pretty spectacular looking! How much did it weigh?
    I think fish & chips [French fries] would be on the menu!

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    1. I don't know how much that fish weighed. He caught it quite awhile back. Not sure where the magazine got the picture. From Glen's friend, I'm sure.
      People do eat fish and chips here but we pretty much call that a fried fish platter with French fries. The combination of those two foods is not unusual but traditional as they are elsewhere.

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  3. Congratulations to Mr Moon. You knew him before he became famous!

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    1. No! I knew him after he was famous. When he played ball for Auburn he was pretty much a celebrity at the time. I'm sorry I missed that.

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  4. That's a huge fish! Does it really have three tails? I had to get out my tape measure to see how big my phone is, I know four inches, it's the hem size I always put on my girls dresses when I made them, so my phone is 6x3 inches.
    Do turnip greens grow with actual turnips attached because that would be handy, and if you plant actual turnips can you still eat the green leaves from them? I buy turnips for my soups with the leaves already chopped off. And now I know what Duolingo is, that seems a very handy use for the phone.

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    1. Here's a quote: "Tripletail fish are called "tripletail" because their large, rounded dorsal and anal fins are positioned to resemble the caudal (tail) fin, giving the appearance of having three tails instead of one." So no, they do not have three tails.
      As for the turnips- yes. The turnips are a root vegetable and you can eat the greens and we do.

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  5. Love the recipe it’s so clean

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  6. Oh, Beatiful Mamma! Lily knows what she’s talking about.

    That triple-tail is astounding. I’ve never even heard of that. How cool for Mr. Moon! I also love the photos he sent you. He has the greatest smile.

    I’m so glad you’re both feeling much better.

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    1. Back to the story of when I met Glen, and I may have said this recently, but one of the reasons I was not exactly sure what was going on with this man when I met him was that he smiled so much. Who in the world could be that happy? And his smile has only gotten better.
      It sort of breaks my heart when I see samples of my children's writing when they were small. Not sure why but it does.

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  7. I can highly recommend Duolingo. Totally free and VERY good (well, I guess we'll see about that next time I go to Italy)!

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    1. I think it's interesting that August wants to learn Russian.

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  8. I absolutely love that they are using Duolingo. My daughter is learning Spanish on it (she teaches in the Bronx and wants to be able to speak to some of the parents who are only Spanish speaking). I want to learn French (re-learn French? I had it in college and remember nothing); one day I will get to Paris. Those boys of yours get lovelier every day, I think.

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    1. My mother studied French in college too. I don't think she remember much of it. But I love that you are relearning it and yes, go to Paris!!
      Those boys crack me up.

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  9. How sweet to have those texts, anonymous or not. And fame at last for Mr moon!

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    1. Well, as I said in another comment above, Glen had a share of fame for awhile back when he played basketball at Auburn. He was sort of beloved.
      I cherish those texts.

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  10. A late sleep is always welcome...pottery will be there next time. That cake does sound delicious, being a choco-holic here. So sweet to text with your grands!

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    1. I think mostly the kiddos are just trying to find things they can do on this wondrous new phone of theirs and calling and texting are two of the very few things they can do. Which works for me!

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  11. So cool to see Mr. Moon featured! He’s an impressive man. And exchanging love notes with your grandsons has got to be the sweetest use of a phone I’ve heard in ages. What precious boys. So glad you’re feeling better.

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    1. It is sort of funny how when they text they do write of their love. Not something they generally throw about in conversation.

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  12. I had to look up triple tail fish because I didn't know. That's a huge fish Glen caught, no wonder he's smiling so big. And he has his beautiful Mary to cook it up for him.
    I had a shit day yesterday but today will be better. Right? I hope so.
    My birthday cake was one Jack picked out at the grocery store. I felt bad, but it was awful to eat, way too much chocolate icing that tasted more like Nestle Quik chocolate. I think I'll make a good chocolate cake today.

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    1. We all hope for that better day tomorrow. Remember the song from Annie? "The sun'll come up, tomorrow!"
      I am so sorry you had a shit day and also that the chocolate cake you got tasted like Nestle Quik. Oh dear. I do find that if there's something I really want I either need to buy it myself or make it myself, depending.

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  13. That's a huge fish. It had to take some effort to reel in that monster. Fishing competitions/marathons are popular off the coast of Cape Cod and Nantucket too. The boats are rigged for big game fishing. Serious fishing is a big interest/hobby.
    Levon and August learning a second language is impressive.
    Their first texts to you are sweet, thoughtful and nicely composed.
    Some days are just not motivating and that is ok. Don't we all have days like that?
    The moist chocolate cake you are making for Lily sounds outstanding and to-die-for. Flourless cake is one of my favorites, just because it is so rich, chocolaty and very moist.

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    1. Glen loves to fish for the big ones and he also loves to fish for the small ones. As long as he has a line in the water, he's happy but you know men- the bigger the better. In their minds, anyway.
      We shall see how seriously the boys take their language lessons. I would love it if they really got into it. Now's the time while their brains are still so plastic.
      I hope this cake is good!

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  14. Somehow I missed your post yesterday so I am glad to hear that you and Mr. Moon are feeling better each day. That's a huge fish he caught!

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    1. Yes. We are doing better.
      He was proud of that fish.

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  15. I have that same Moosewood cookbook! There's a West African Groundnut Stew in it that I really like. I haven't made it in years. (Weekend project?)

    I admire anyone who can bake any kind of a cake so what you've done seems heroic to me!

    I've never heard of a triple-tail. Is it a grouper of some kind?

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    1. OK, just looked it up. Not a grouper, but a species of its own. I have heard of grunt, which is apparently another name for it.

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    2. I should try that recipe. I've never even studied it although I have noticed it. It's a good cookbook.
      Tripletail is a lot better sounding than grunt, isn't it?

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  16. I am glad to read that you are feeling better after your shots. I enjoyed reading about your cake making. I bet your cakes do taste delicious!

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    1. Well, if you get the correct ingredients in there and don't burn it, chances are it'll taste okay. That's my philosophy anyway.

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  17. The Moosewood cookbooks are some of our most used here. Love seeing this here!
    Currently our grandchild is using their mother's phone to read to us and to have discussions about the story and the rendition. This is the social in social media for me right now.

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  18. A Celebrity Fisherman, congrats, that was some catch!!! Too bad they didn't spell his Name right.

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