tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post3797022929134019027..comments2024-03-29T06:37:40.071-04:00Comments on Bless Our Hearts: MarriageMs. Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-92088235137284171052009-04-05T10:24:00.000-04:002009-04-05T10:24:00.000-04:00All This Trouble- I figured that out as I was fall...All This Trouble- I figured that out as I was falling asleep last night. <BR/>We did sort of get married in a fever, hotter than a pepper sprout. Don't we all?<BR/>You know, I loved my thirties and my forties were even better. But the fifties-oh, I've had some troubles with the fifties.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-22599251582487078982009-04-05T10:13:00.000-04:002009-04-05T10:13:00.000-04:00HA! I was referring to whether you married in a fe...HA! I was referring to whether you married in a fever... <BR/><BR/>I should've been clearer. I'm still having trouble developing a "tone" for my comments. <BR/><BR/>I'm 34 years old and that's just a hop, skip and jump from where you are in linear land. My thirties have been hard for me but I'm beginning to get the hang of them. "When I grow up"...I say it symbolically. To acknowledge we are always growing, always changing, always moving.All This Trouble...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00500426849293742171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-7884027554948069492009-04-04T22:51:00.000-04:002009-04-04T22:51:00.000-04:00Hello All This Trouble- Hmmm. Well, I don't consid...Hello All This Trouble- Hmmm. Well, I don't consider myself grown up yet but I suppose I should be at my age. But I appreciate that compliment. I really do. Also the fact that you like what you're reading. Especially that.<BR/>Did we do it in a fever, hotter than a pepper sprout? I haven't thought of that song in years.<BR/>Answer: I don't believe in TMI. My children read this blog. Tee- hee.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-7374947497454387572009-04-04T18:53:00.000-04:002009-04-04T18:53:00.000-04:00Did you do it in a fever? Hotter than a pepper spr...Did you do it in a fever? Hotter than a pepper sprout?<BR/><BR/>I've loved reading your blog today. I saw your comment on another blog and thought you looked a lot like the lady I want to be when I grow up.All This Trouble...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00500426849293742171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-72326821059450958142009-03-23T15:44:00.000-04:002009-03-23T15:44:00.000-04:00Thank-you, HoneyBunnyLuna. I think you're right. Y...Thank-you, HoneyBunnyLuna. I think you're right. Your daddy can take it but really, he shouldn't have to.<BR/><BR/>Lady Lemon- Oh. I feel many of us can relate. I'm lucky to have a man who tolerates this foolishness. Luckily, it doesn't happen very often.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-21273768503518410092009-03-23T09:48:00.000-04:002009-03-23T09:48:00.000-04:00I've done this same thing countless times. The wo...I've done this same thing countless times. The worst part is that you can feel it happening in the moment, but it's just too late at that point.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad that you have a man that can handle all the crazy you can dish out. Isn't that what marriage really is? Dealing with each others crazy and still wanting to see each other in the morning?Lady Lemonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07630074794568739448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-80653877738970928652009-03-23T00:52:00.000-04:002009-03-23T00:52:00.000-04:00That WAS a really nice post. You are a beautiful w...That WAS a really nice post. You are a beautiful writer, and I've told you this a billion and one times, but it's true. And keep telling Papa what you want and need from him. I think he's strong enough to take it.honeylunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10528514781592213251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-41611845668248835232009-03-22T17:22:00.000-04:002009-03-22T17:22:00.000-04:00Tiff- Thank you so much. I am glad you came by and...Tiff- Thank you so much. I am glad you came by and I am glad you commented and I am glad that what I wrote resonated with you. Very much so.<BR/><BR/>Maggie May- That means so much coming from you. It truly does.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-58190465622018148422009-03-22T16:35:00.000-04:002009-03-22T16:35:00.000-04:00Also one of my favorite things ever:This POst.THAN...Also one of my favorite things ever:<BR/>This POst.<BR/><BR/>THANK YOU, Ms. Moon. You are such a special writer. By this I mean amazing and touching and good. By this I mean that the last time Mr.Curry and I were having a Big Problem I thought of you and what you might say. That speaks enough to your writing.<BR/>xoMaggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14699674732274478502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-87896878818271078782009-03-22T12:57:00.000-04:002009-03-22T12:57:00.000-04:00one of my most favorite things ever: this post. I ...one of my most favorite things ever: this post. I don't even know you but you have put into words all those things I feel. lovely. thank you.Tiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11734122912116892392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-39486366866695954212009-03-22T11:44:00.000-04:002009-03-22T11:44:00.000-04:00MOB- I know! I know! In some ways, I think it's a ...MOB- I know! I know! <BR/>In some ways, I think it's a very nice thing that Mr. Moon and I do not have much practice at disagreement. <BR/>As to riding without a helmet- Yes, you're definitely right. But we only drove up the road about three miles and very slowly. But you're completely correct.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-88861550043611473402009-03-22T07:50:00.000-04:002009-03-22T07:50:00.000-04:00"You never..." I said."You don't..." I said."I fee..."You never..." I said.<BR/>"You don't..." I said.<BR/>"I feel..." I said.<BR/>-----------<BR/>Sounds like you don't say these words very often, or express your needs to your husband very much, so these words HAD to come out, like a volcano exploding - it doesn't choose when to explode, it just does it when it has to. Not that I'm the expert on marriage (HA, HA) but here are some phrases to say - in advance - to avoid the pressure building up and another explosion: <BR/>For -<BR/>"You never..." substitute - "baby, could you please..."<BR/>FOR - "You don't..." substitue "dear, I really like it when you..."<BR/>"I feel" is good - but keep it all about you, not "I feel X when you do y," just say "I feel." But as most men are clueless, you may have to fill in the x and y.<BR/>And, do you know what we call people who ride motorcycles without helmets in my state? Organ donors!My Other Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03259985544840529549noreply@blogger.com