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As you said, she probably knows what she's doing.<br /><br />I'm sure that many people who survive sexual abuse tell themselves a lot of things to, if not justify the abuse, then make it more bearable. I think abusers tell themselves a lot of things, too. And somehow love, or twisted ideas of love, are tied up in all that. But of course it's just abuse and victimization and love has nothing to do with any of it.Steve Reedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11684120060438252945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-2385383454340684582018-08-10T19:49:35.004-04:002018-08-10T19:49:35.004-04:00And that touches my heart to its core. Thank you, ...And that touches my heart to its core. Thank you, Sabine. I would gladly sit and hold your hand. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-69742160967098513542018-08-10T19:48:58.939-04:002018-08-10T19:48:58.939-04:00And that's it, isn't it e? To know what we...And that's it, isn't it e? To know what we are not alone and that we are worth loving. I know that and yet sometimes it's so hard to FEEL that. And I think that this causes me to hurt others and it prevents me from living my truest life. Which sucks. I keep working at it though. I do. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-34719483075401243912018-08-10T19:47:42.712-04:002018-08-10T19:47:42.712-04:00I love YOU so. Absolutely and down to my bones. I love YOU so. Absolutely and down to my bones. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-84127880629789297982018-08-10T19:47:24.047-04:002018-08-10T19:47:24.047-04:00Thank you, am. I am a strong believer in speaking ...Thank you, am. I am a strong believer in speaking out. There is no shame in being a survivor. The shame does not belong to us. And every time we speak out and up, someone somewhere benefits. I believe this. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-28525850522421734522018-08-10T19:46:14.224-04:002018-08-10T19:46:14.224-04:00I'm with you, Bohemian. I swear to god- I can ...I'm with you, Bohemian. I swear to god- I can rationalize murder sometimes better than I can rationalize the abuse of a child in any way. And you are right- it's a lifetime of torment. We can learn to live with it but it's always there. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-15128721922539362752018-08-10T19:44:50.269-04:002018-08-10T19:44:50.269-04:00And that's what breaks my heart.And that's what breaks my heart. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-62183450542261525412018-08-10T19:44:30.259-04:002018-08-10T19:44:30.259-04:00I am so far from selfless but I am glad I have bee...I am so far from selfless but I am glad I have been able to help you in any way possible. Thank you for those sweet words. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-721165678368531062018-08-10T19:43:54.816-04:002018-08-10T19:43:54.816-04:00It's the endless layers of the onion, isn'...It's the endless layers of the onion, isn't it? You peel one layer off and then there's about a thousand more. I realize now I'll never understand all of it but still, I do the best I can. Which is what all of us do. <br />I hope Violet does well too. That hen is one hell of a survivor!Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-2473361769659614352018-08-10T19:42:32.331-04:002018-08-10T19:42:32.331-04:00Funny uncles are often abusers. No doubt about tha...Funny uncles are often abusers. No doubt about that. And if you had one, you probably suffer from the effects to this day in ways you've never really considered. At the very least, you learn not to trust and that sucks. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-8775746507670987062018-08-10T19:41:29.625-04:002018-08-10T19:41:29.625-04:00Yeah. You can only keep that shit walled up for so...Yeah. You can only keep that shit walled up for so long and then it's all going to bust out and we have to deal with the mess. None of it is fair, is it? And it's all damn hard. <br />You know you have a very special place in my heart, right? Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-83494346240942998862018-08-10T19:40:00.368-04:002018-08-10T19:40:00.368-04:00Trust me- I am not the only person who ever surviv...Trust me- I am not the only person who ever survived and lived on to create a good family. Sometimes we break the chain of abuse by doing exactly the opposite of what was done to us. I hope to hell I've done that. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-77409786447801368482018-08-10T19:38:56.912-04:002018-08-10T19:38:56.912-04:00Twenty-one days is the usual time it takes to hatc...Twenty-one days is the usual time it takes to hatch. That's a long time!Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-71822467952726360072018-08-10T19:38:32.973-04:002018-08-10T19:38:32.973-04:00I'm glad that I can be a source for learning. ...I'm glad that I can be a source for learning. That makes me feel like I'm doing my job. <br />Don't worry about Violet- that little lady hen is smart as hell. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-89595858609198790212018-08-10T11:41:06.390-04:002018-08-10T11:41:06.390-04:00Thank you for your openess. It touched me deeply, ...Thank you for your openess. It touched me deeply, I would very much sit beside you and hold your hand for a while.Sabinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015827501648296977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-84732054030395233102018-08-09T21:25:14.249-04:002018-08-09T21:25:14.249-04:00Thank you, yet again, and always. You write with s...Thank you, yet again, and always. You write with such clarity about something I've rarely written about publicly though today I can say I am extremely grateful to three therapists. They helped me save myself, and it really does help to know one is not alone and worth loving.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-20851307447753716392018-08-09T14:28:07.583-04:002018-08-09T14:28:07.583-04:00Darling Mary, I think your openness with what happ...Darling Mary, I think your openness with what happened to you, and your clarity about the complexities, helps people who read here immeasurably. I love you so.37paddingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400464105403622384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-39135246714008369272018-08-09T11:14:03.795-04:002018-08-09T11:14:03.795-04:00"Best I suppose to just let her be and let he..."Best I suppose to just let her be and let her be the judge of all of that. She could have laid her eggs in that chick box to begin with but chose not to. She's a wily little half-wild thing so maybe she'll be okay."<br /><br />That sounds like hard-won wisdom to me.<br /><br />Due to my experiences as a child, I am acutely aware of anything that could possibly be abuse of a child whether it be sexual, physical or emotional or any combination of the three. Being abused by those one depends on for survival or guidance is devastating, as you and so many of us know. Each time childhood abuse is addressed in the media, more survivors are able to realize that what happened to them was not love but abuse. Thank you for continuing to address this issue of intergenerational trauma. The cycle of abuse can be and will continue to be broken.amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09212213177713917828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-88420390241636311252018-08-09T10:46:24.331-04:002018-08-09T10:46:24.331-04:00Glad to hear Violet was found and just in Mommy Mo...Glad to hear Violet was found and just in Mommy Mode. Trigger Post absolutely, I was older so I didn't have the range of emotion a younger Child or younger Teen might have had... but I would suspect the range of emotion can be as vast as the particular circumstances of the violation. Everyone feels what they feel about experiences in life no matter how bad the experiences are... so many times coping mechanisms are mysterious as to how anyone survives anything that is very traumatic. Perhaps because of my own experience it is still one of the most revolting of crimes to me and I never feel the punishment of the perp ever matches the lifetime of torment of the victims.Bohemianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03743017084098726581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-85676643627373157702018-08-09T09:02:48.820-04:002018-08-09T09:02:48.820-04:00I'm glad violet has been found. and I think I ...I'm glad violet has been found. and I think I caught part of that interview on my way home from yoga. I remember her saying that she didn't think of it as abuse because she thought love was involved.ellen abbotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00535475792150335186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-87400630700613331842018-08-09T02:34:34.186-04:002018-08-09T02:34:34.186-04:00And I am another that you help, Mrs moon. Selfless...And I am another that you help, Mrs moon. Selfless, beautiful soul that you are. Xxx<br />Here's hoping tenacious violet has a happy ending. XxChristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093533351238991113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-38704744654311865792018-08-09T00:04:32.170-04:002018-08-09T00:04:32.170-04:00I get this and the love and pain are so complicate...I get this and the love and pain are so complicated and twisted, especially when you need the adult for your very survival. And the hope for a normal life after such abuse is lost for many. I am in awe of the family you’ve created, which shows is possible for some. I hope Violet does well.Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08015888228309968515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-23063761250955775632018-08-08T22:36:20.100-04:002018-08-08T22:36:20.100-04:00this is a post most worthy, Mary. I have never kno...this is a post most worthy, Mary. I have never known what to do or think about our "funny Uncle", I am still confused, is it the patriarchy that allows? You do help me work it through , though. I am forever grateful. Linda Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03070050388987072100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-11081126913870001892018-08-08T21:49:49.684-04:002018-08-08T21:49:49.684-04:00you have helped me survive and for that i am grate...<br />you have helped me survive and for that i am grateful. it can never make sense, the only person who is kind to you is also the very same person that takes from you something they have no right to access. <br /><br />control alt delete as a coping skill doesn't work forever- i think i figured that out around the same time i started writing about my crappy relationship which i kept trying to reset or delete the bad things....<br /><br />xxalainaxxmrs.missalaineushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542984504965262088noreply@blogger.com