tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post1613130684923454234..comments2009-12-30T15:18:09.057-05:00Ms. Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-20884803938705786692009-12-30T15:18:09.057-05:002009-12-30T15:18:09.057-05:00I am forbidden to talk about The Husband&#39;s family. I got drunk a few pages ago and wrote a nasty piece about his brother. This is after he pretended to be a tenant and said he was going to get me fired and said some very means things about me and my marriage.<br /><br />I had no idea that he and my MIL were reading my new page. It all blew up. Big time. Even though I have moved again, I just keep my damn mouth shut. As much as I would love to vent, it is easier on my marriage if I don&#39;t...The Dishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03627205006501301967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-52617358583535257322009-12-28T13:36:29.116-05:002009-12-28T13:36:29.116-05:00What I wanted to say, I don&#39;t even dare put here.<br /><br />I pretty much DO write about everything on the blog, even when I know it makes me seem like a whiney little bitch. Maybe I shouldn&#39;t.gingermagnoliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01422592966223403266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-76416597365085210112009-12-28T12:23:13.487-05:002009-12-28T12:23:13.487-05:00I don&#39;t have a whole lot of self-censorship going on on my blog, if you haven&#39;t noticed. Laugh.<br /><br />I simply do NOT give a shit.<br /><br />I do try to stay clear of talking about my workplace very much for Dooce-ian reasons.<br /><br />Love you.Sarcastic Bastardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17116577711704241625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-50445045050765119252009-12-28T09:55:57.655-05:002009-12-28T09:55:57.655-05:00Michelle- I am too old to care what people think of my rich use of profanity. But I can understand worrying that a patient or, maybe one of my children&#39;s friend&#39;s mothers might read. Dang. It&#39;s complicated. The one place where we should be allowed to be ourselves and still, we tame it to make it palatable. <br /><br />Glimmer- &quot;My blogging is truthful but only a shadow of the real.&quot;<br />That was beautifully put.Ms. Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-24837262148234778572009-12-28T00:16:11.043-05:002009-12-28T00:16:11.043-05:00I would like to blog about things in the past I only hint about. Because they would be devastating in the full light of day. I also would like to be breathtakingly honest. But I&#39;m too concerned about offending. My blogging is truthful but only a shadow of the real.Glimmerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02085124664342701611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-16896032017463570082009-12-27T19:44:08.228-05:002009-12-27T19:44:08.228-05:00I try to post as though I&#39;m writing in a journal, or telling a good friend about my day. I probably get too specific about my job because I&#39;ve had moments of panic at the thought about one of the partners, or a patient, reading my stuff.<br /><br />I, too, was bitch slapped by an anonymous commenter who was offended by my potty mouth. I posted my email and invited her to be bwave and state her name<br /><br />Sometimes I want to cuss like SB. But I tame it so as not to offend those with a cleaner vocabularymichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09861251743062824891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-54984619515260813292009-12-27T14:49:55.593-05:002009-12-27T14:49:55.593-05:00AE,<br /><br />Oh! My bad. XD I think I know who you&#39;re talking about. I suppose I&#39;ll just ask you in person, lol.My Brainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08069753417703630801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-30867662080710103522009-12-27T12:27:38.134-05:002009-12-27T12:27:38.134-05:00Daddy X- And what a great job you have done! You have made so many of us happy this past year. <br /><br />Tanya- I completely get that.<br /><br />Kori- Mmmmm. I believe every mother could and can relate to that.Ms. Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-827046261056460872009-12-27T12:12:54.061-05:002009-12-27T12:12:54.061-05:00the list of things I won&#39;t blog about is far greater than those I will. Well, maybe not true, but what I try to do when writing about anything is write about how it affects ME. Lots of things affect me, but I try to be respectful of what is mine to share and what isn&#39;t, to take my own inventory so to speak. I won&#39;t write about sex other than in reference to it, because that is very personal and private and none of anyone&#39;s business. People know what I do as a job but I don&#39;t write much about it because it could get me in legal trouble. I try not to write things that I would be ashamed or embarrassed to say out loud to a friend. I write how i feel, but I don&#39;t write much about how sometimes my kids drive me to anger so deep that I have to leave the room, I don&#39;t blog about those moments where I really just don&#39;t see the point in getting up again-partly because I don&#39;t want CPS to come investigate me or have someone stop by with a straitjacket, but also partly because those moments are just that-moments. WE all want to die sometimes, I think, want to hurt our kids at other times, slash someone&#39;s tires, whatever-but most of us don&#39;t DO it, we just FEEL it. So I try to keep those moments more provate-if I need to write, I will often write and delete.Korihttp://seekorirant.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-40284083477917137922009-12-27T11:29:25.137-05:002009-12-27T11:29:25.137-05:00i do not write about doubts and fears i have in relationships because my partner reads my blog. and while i do write about my diapointments with family, i do not write nearly as much and as honestly as i would like. thats why i also have a personal private blog. just for me. just for me to get my thoughts and emotions out. often its irrational any way and so it would do no good to anyone else if they read the words on my personal blog.<br /><br />another thing i would write more about is questions about my own mental health and sanity. but i dont want people to misunderstand and think im ill and in need of help psychiatric help. <br /><br />besides my mental health, i would also discuss more about my physical health, but i dont want people to worry about me, or to get grossed out if i go in to detail with things that are wrong. <br /><br />hmmm. yes. yes that is it.tanyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06431789250305320548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-66480831900582625562009-12-27T10:50:13.025-05:002009-12-27T10:50:13.025-05:00my brain- it&#39;s not you! :) Nowadays I agree with most of your beliefs I think. :) It&#39;s another mutual friend of ours though- I think you know who, cause really, I only have 2 old friends like that (apart from my brohther), and you are the other one. :)Abandoning Edenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-82430130356091327282009-12-27T10:11:29.082-05:002009-12-27T10:11:29.082-05:00I try to stick to the idea that other people&#39;s stories are off limits. Not mine to tell. <br /><br />I blog on one topic as honestly as is possible. In that area being open has helped beyond measure. <br /><br />We are happier because of it.Xbox4NappyRashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11044403947730363259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-42941980988927029142009-12-27T08:42:41.354-05:002009-12-27T08:42:41.354-05:00Ms. Eden- Yes. Those are all private things and although some would probably write about them publicly, I would not either. <br /><br />Sandra- And isn&#39;t that funny? Maybe you&#39;ll baby-step your way towards doing that eventually.<br /><br />Rachel- I don&#39;t see that there&#39;s anything wrong with protected posts. Sometimes you have to get things out and that doesn&#39;t mean you want everyone in the world to know about it.<br /><br />Aunt Becky- That makes sense to me. I hate dirty laundry in public. I mean, tongue-in-cheek gentle chiding is one thing, putting out the anger is another. I commend you on that.<br /><br />Alice In Wonderland- Honey, I think you need to write a book and do it now!<br /><br />Miss Alaineous- You have always struck me as being very truthful and ballsy and I love that.<br /><br />Jill- Well, once in a while you could...<br /><br />Melissa- And you did! I&#39;m proud of you.<br /><br />Grasshopper- And that is why we have best friends. <br /><br />Ms. Fleur- That sounds like a good idea. Go for it!<br /><br />Ms. Allegra- I think that boils down to the fact that you do not allow yourself to complain. A little bit would be okay, you know. We would still love you so very much.<br /><br />My Brain- I hope the message was received.<br /><br />Angie- Well, you are not quite like me. Complaining is always enjoyable for me. I am a mean bitch at heart.<br /><br />Jo- So you censor yourself in aid of entertainment? Sometimes, at least. That&#39;s interesting. I probably do that too.<br /><br />Danielle- What a lovely dream! I think there is a dish called a pepperpot but I don&#39;t know what it is. And I don&#39;t know what it is when I come to your blog, either, but yes, I suppose, to discover the person who want to share with the world, at least.<br /><br />Geeksinrome- That is very understandable. Very prudent. And journals will never go out of style for all of those reasons.Ms. Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-21072069792318054852009-12-27T07:43:56.616-05:002009-12-27T07:43:56.616-05:00I would never ever blog about work b/c we need a roof over our heads and I would pledge allegiance to the GOP rather than be thrown on the streets with small children. <br /> <br />I don&#39;t blog about my family (beyond my hubby and kids) b/c we&#39;re New England Puritan stock that likes to keep the skeletons closeted.<br /><br />All my inner thoughts and mullings I keep in a journal. I find I don&#39;t need this info to be public to benefit from working it out in my head and coming to my own resolutions about it. <br /><br />When I or the people in my journals drop dead, Doubleday is more than welcome to splash it onto the public domain.geeksinromehttp://geeksinrome.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-19476465329110071992009-12-27T06:03:42.174-05:002009-12-27T06:03:42.174-05:00oh my ms moon..what have you done to me..i read this post last night and thought i llcoment it today because i was already very tired...and then..i dreamed about it all night long..in my dream i was sitting in your kitchen and you were cooking something you called a pepperpot??? and i was sitting at your tanble with a llllloooonggg piece of paper and a writing fetaher and tried to get down all the thousands of things i dont blog about..waaaahhh!!!<br /><br />so lets see what i dont blog about...first of all i dont blog about a lot of work relatet things..which is mostly i m not allowed too until a certain date...then i dont blog about my parents...because its too complicatet...i love to blog about my kids but have to keep that anonymously because..well...its not easy with some of my real life readers...<br /><br />i wish i could blog more about me...the real me..about how the landscapes of my heart and mind are changing...but the real me..is that what you are looking for when you come to the pussy shack?Daniellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14437792304668178783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-22822763821544929252009-12-27T04:43:22.054-05:002009-12-27T04:43:22.054-05:00Ok. I admit, I would probably talk more about my vagina. <br /><br />And sex. And being fat. <br /><br />And I&#39;ve tried to stop complaining about my husband. <br /><br />And I got in trouble with a friend for making gay porn jokes too much, that was sad, so I&#39;ve cut back on that... <br /><br />The posts I write and don&#39;t post are the self loathing adolescent ones. And sometimes the grief ones. <br /><br />There&#39;s too much that just ain&#39;t entertaining. Though... if you read back, you can find some of them... :)Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-970693690388733212009-12-27T04:00:30.583-05:002009-12-27T04:00:30.583-05:00Ms. Moon I don&#39;t know how you do it. So many posts in a couple of days. But what a treat!! I can&#39;t wait to read them all.<br />There are a lot of things I wish I could blog about, yet don&#39;t. Good manners keep me on my toes. Also, the older I get the less I like to dwell on negativity or deal with sour people. <br />Life&#39;s too short, and I aim to enjoy mine fully!Angie Muresanhttp://www.angiemuresan.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-44394948895115602532009-12-27T02:02:32.011-05:002009-12-27T02:02:32.011-05:00AE, I love you no matter what. I have a tough skin, so feel free to criticize! I really welcome it. <br /><br />Oh and if you&#39;re not talking about me...uh, please disregard :SMy Brainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08069753417703630801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-45553232772812076712009-12-27T00:22:18.899-05:002009-12-27T00:22:18.899-05:00The comings and goings with chemo.<br />What I really feel like some days when I go into that dark hole because it is a passage to hell, not the one made up by religion, but the personal one and it may bring sadness or panic to someone who loves me, and who may read it. <br /><br />Otherwise I have been known to push some buttons and although never done on purpose - who knew before my blog had to go private thanks to the darn Korean pornographers harvesting addresses, who read my blog? - it was like giving permission to the world to read my journal and if they were bothered by what I wrote, all they have to do is to stop reading. No secrets, I guess. Just a healthy dosage of &quot;discretion is the better part of valor&quot; here.Allegra Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06947308878002639964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-10989075780778024912009-12-26T23:57:13.626-05:002009-12-26T23:57:13.626-05:00I&#39;m lucky if I get to post anything! Just seems to be no time to think through a subject the way I like to, enough to write about it.<br /><br />Ultimately, I&#39;d like to have several blogs. I like the idea of having a blog about a particular subject, and have a little something each day... I&#39;d like to do that when I begin coaching, and what is stopping me?? Fear of commitment. (Refer to opening paragraph please!)<br /><br />Wow, you&#39;ve really opened a can of worms with this one Ms Moon!<br />xo pfPetit fleurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02626110471501778855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-72815672865608619922009-12-26T23:41:18.662-05:002009-12-26T23:41:18.662-05:00Oh me, oh my<br />every day is a lie.<br /><br />(Just trying to keep the rhyming thing going.)<br /><br />There is so much I don&#39;t blog about. Most of the important things really.<br /><br />I had an underblog for a while, but haven&#39;t written lately because I&#39;m learning to let things out more in the real world. I&#39;d blog a lot more about the current state of my relationship but that would hurt feelings. Bethany knows all my secrets...she&#39;s my underblog now.grasshopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02260272477993294207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-78335485231645167762009-12-26T23:19:12.777-05:002009-12-26T23:19:12.777-05:00I wish I could blog about my ex-boyfriend, my current boyfriend, and a certain friend that can annoy the living heck out of me.<br /><br />But I don&#39;t know who will find my blog and read it!Melissa Kayehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09323152248028593738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-30897388196784124702009-12-26T22:59:08.512-05:002009-12-26T22:59:08.512-05:00I&#39;d blog about just how much I would rather have the life that I had 10 years ago. So sad, even to type it in a comment... so I avoid blogging about it in general and try to stay positive.Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06671446238805535547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-43177789163808220312009-12-26T22:59:02.664-05:002009-12-26T22:59:02.664-05:00i pretty much say what i have to say, however i try to use things that are non-traceable as far as when i talk about work for the sake of common sense.<br /><br />my future husband (in about 50 hours now)also blogs and we link our stuff together occasionally. i dont think i would post our dirty laundry out of respect to him unless it was something that had a funny resolution that we both agreed upon (because it is his life too)<br /><br />as far as people agreeing with me or not, very few people IRL have ever been concerned with my feelings, esp in my family so i dont feel bad calling things as they are when it comes to things of that nature. if they dont like it they can suck it, to quote the great kathy griffin.<br /><br /><br />xxalainaxxmiss alaineushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08542984504965262088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2086296370004835655.post-26687932302381995552009-12-26T22:49:42.860-05:002009-12-26T22:49:42.860-05:00Oh, and can I just add that I am related to the singer, Donovan! My Grandmother and his Mother were sisters!Alice in Wonderlandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15068858292644394838noreply@blogger.com