Friday, October 30, 2026

Beauty And Strength

I'm pretty sure that we can safely say that the number of pictures I have to post when I sit down to write every evening is an excellent gauge of how my day has gone. 
Lots of pictures? I've probably been pretty content with my world and appreciative of so much in it. 
Few to no pictures? 
Eh, not so much. 

Yesterday there were pictures. Today, well, okay. Here's a picture.


That is, according to Google Lens, a Christmas wreath lichen. 
I'll buy that. 
When I took the sheets out to the line to hang this morning, I realized that a rather largish branch had fallen from a live oak which saddened me because that tree isn't old. In fact, I would think that the owners of the house before us may have planted it or else it sprang up and they let it live. So maybe twenty-five to thirty years old which is a baby in live oak years. 
But there it was. And it was in two pieces so it was not a healthy branch at all. 


But what a pretty patch of lichen it had allowed to take hold. 
I think the part of it which is bordered in white, rather than the pinkish red looks like a photo of an ocean taken from high, high in the sky. Can you see what I mean? 
And the part that is bordered in the pinkish red could be an arial photo of land far beneath, the red bumps hills and mountain ranges. 
Sort of reminds me of when someone first gets stoned and comes up with the theory that perhaps the universe is just the vastly enlarged image of an atom, a molecule, a building block of creation. 
Hell yes! 
And it may well be. Who knows? 
Not me. 
I'm saying that a lot recently, aren't I? 
I do not use those words lightly. I don't even know enough to know what I don't know. 
But still- pretty lichen on oak tree branch. 

I got my regular Friday stuff done today, washing sheets, hanging them on the line, making the bed up with them, smoothing the covers over them as best I can, coaxing out all of the wrinkles below them. 
No matter my mood or outlook, this simple act does give me pleasure and satisfaction. It is self-care and it is husband-care. He may not really notice on a conscious level but that's fine with me. I know I've done my best to make his rest easier. And my own, too. 

I went to town to pick up a few things I needed and to drop some things off at Oak Tree Treasures. While I was there, I ran into a woman whom I immediately recognized as someone I knew and quickly realized she works at The Wharf, a restaurant we eat at quite frequently. She recognized me too and asked if I ever eat at the Wharf and I said that yes, and that's where we recognized each other from. We ended up having a very good conversation and I learned that she's worked at the Wharf for seven years, has loved it, and loves the people she works with but that she's leaving soon to move to Austin, Texas to live with her long-time, long-distance boyfriend. She's a little apprehensive but she's ready to spread her wings. 
We ended up talking about everything from sewing to knitting to jigsaw puzzles to, well, a lot of stuff. I knew I liked her before today but now I know why. 
She finally asked me what my name was and I told her and asked her what her name was and it is Katy. Or Katie. I don't know. 
And that was truly the high point of my day, making that connection, hearing her story. Or at least part of it. 
You know how much I love that. 
She is a beautiful young woman and I wished her all the luck in the world. 

There's more to say but it's not yet time to discuss that particular subject and so I won't, but things are a little emotional around here this evening for Mr. Moon. 
I will say that when I first met him, I was astounded at his physical strength. I will never forget watching him pick a boat up and putting it in the back of his truck. 
Okay, the boat wasn't THAT big or it wouldn't have fit in the back of his truck but it was big enough to require a red flag on the end of it which stuck out. 
But over the years I have watched his emotional strength grow until I do believe it surpasses his physical strength. And that is what he is about to be called on to use. 

Martinis. Clean sheets. 
Trying to keep the perspective of looking at the universe in ways that help explain so much from both very near and so very far. 

I believe I should go kiss him now. And then start our supper. 

Happy Friday, y'all. 

Love...Ms. Moon

36 comments:

  1. Happy Friday! I agree with your interpretation of the lichen, ocean indeed as well as the rest of it from high in the sky.

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    1. A world in a patch of lichen on a fallen oak branch.

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  2. Thank you for sharing and I think you’ve got it all in perspective. God, life can be the biggest bitch and yet, as a friend’s husband of mine said once when I was mindlessly and cluelessly complaining! about getting old said, “ It’s a blessing to get old,” I stopped and realized he was right. He had come to my house with my friend (his wife) on his allowed 10 mile radius from getting a liver transplant. (He’s not even a drinker.) I was in the allowed proximity of him leaving the hospital.

    I don’t know what I’m trying to say except life and the possibility of death changes a perspective. I’ll stop myself when I bitch about being alive and how fucking hard this world is and remember what he said as he was recovering from a liver transplant, given to him by someone he knew.

    I still don’t know what I’m saying other than, yes, your man needs you. You’ve got him, which is a huge weight. Your brain has proper perspective and priority. You’re doing better than you may think right now. That lichen is righteous. It’d be a cool pottery project.

    -Nicol

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    1. People do say that a lot- getting old is a gift that not everyone gets which is perfectly true but I've seen so many old people whose lives are truly not their own anymore due to dementia and age-related physical problems. I really want to get the hell out of here before that happens to me. But it is good to look at things from all perspectives.
      I have a friend whose husband got a liver transplant some years ago and he is doing very, very well.
      I think Glen and I need each other and we are so lucky to be able to be here for each other. To love each other enough to want to be.

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  3. that lichen is gorgeous..and it does resemble a satellite photo of the earth? the oceans?, lovely. I am reading between your lines of Mr Moon and needing to use one of his *powers*...... I wish him strength and I know he can do it.....but not easily. Never easily
    Susan M

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    1. I think it is pretty obvious what's going on here. And it is going slowly.

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  4. Reckoning the not said bit involves his friend with the rare virus , maybe his exit. Exit probably a blessing. Wicked virus.
    Clean sheets are a fixer for sure. a good meal, a martini- comforting the human feels- you are a good and nurturing soul!

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    1. The friend is on the final part of his journey, I guess we could say.
      I do like to nurture those I love. This seems to be a need I have. Maybe that's why I love babies so much. They require ALL the nurturing.

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  5. Emotionally strong people amaze me. I always feel weak compared to my husband. How do they do it?

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    1. Oh, Bev. I bet you are far stronger emotionally than you think. Some people show that strength in silent ways, others have their own ways. I am not of the silent type myself.

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    2. Thank you. That was kind of you to say.

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  6. I am agreeing with a couple of others here on the emotional subject. extra hugs and extra martinis will be required.
    I can definitely see the ocean in that gray/white patch of lichen.

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  7. Mr Moon is fortunate to have you at his back. Don't underestimate how much your love and support strengthens him.
    Thinking of you both. xxx

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    1. And his love and support strengthen me.
      I hope all is well with you and yours, Ms. Merlot!

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  8. Maybe a lichen platter for a pottery project? Raised texture mimicking the lichen texture and then glaze in those great colors?

    And your post reminded me that after an early AM appointment I forgot to change the sheets. Tomorrow is another day it's too late now.

    Ceci

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    1. I believe I will let nature be the artist for lichen. I seriously doubt I could create anything that anyone would recognize as what I had intended. I do not have that talent.
      The world does not come to an end if the sheets aren't changed on the proscribed day.

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  9. Mary Moon, you write so beautifully. That paragraph about physical and emotional strength wrung my heart. So glad you're there to hold Mr. Moon close. Chris from Boise

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    1. Thank you, Chris. There are so many types of strength, aren't there?

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  10. The lichen offers so many possibilities for interpretation. Beautiful. Your love and respect for Mr. Moon is heartwarming.

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    1. You know how longtime love is. We're the lucky ones.

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  11. The rhythm of your life is so comforting and, like Mitchell said, the love for your husband is heartwarming. You are a strong woman.

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    1. Thank you for the observation that it's not just the routine of my life that makes me feel calmer, it is the rhythm. Wow. I'm really thinking about this.

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  12. Today, or very early tomorrow morning, is the time to "fall back" an hour! Yes, it's that time ⏰️ of the year, once again!

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    1. That's right! I'm always shocked when the time comes around again.

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  13. Some days require a double martini and that's okay.
    A great meal, clean bedsheets and martinis - that's got to improve everything.
    PBS recently talked about dangerous mosquitoes in FL and the illnesses being introduced. It was scary. I thought of Alan.
    Susan

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    1. As I keep saying, Dr. Fauci has said that the mosquito is the most deadly animal on earth. And as climate change becomes more and more profound, mosquitoes are going to be increasing in both numbers and in the territories they inhabit.
      Yep. One mosquito bite.

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  14. I do like the shapes and colors of lichen. These are spectacular. And best to Mr moon. I'm guessing it's about an impending goodbye.

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    1. I am not sure why but I always think of you when I am observing lichens and mosses and fungi. I thank you for whatever influence you have had on me in that regard because obviously you have.
      Yes. Impending goodbye. Good way to put it.

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  15. I see what you mean about the lichen. Lots to imagine in that photo.
    You and Mr. Moon support each other so well. You two are treasures for each other.

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    1. We are Ellen. And we absolutely know how lucky we are.

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  16. I love lichens, so eerie and other worldly. I think the next shadow box will be lichens. I did fried catfish, french fries (thank you CostCo) and a small salad last night. Sounds like A has let his last breath out.

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    1. Lichens do look as if they came from a world not our own. I would be very interested in seeing a lichen shadow-box.
      Fried catfish is always good and so are Costco french fries.
      Alan is still breathing but the process has begun.

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  17. I am not emotionally strong in the traditional sense because my emotions tend to swing a fair bit, but I know that I can cope with a lot without falling apart. Except I do fall apart a little, but I can still keep going. Does any of that make sense?
    I'm sorry for what's coming for Mr. Moon. Grief is always painful.
    The lichen is gorgeous. Happy Halloween.

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    1. You know, I think you are incredibly emotionally strong. It's just like I said in reply to Bev's comment- some of us have silent strength and others have their own way of displaying it.
      And yes, what you said makes perfect sense to me.

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  18. That is a beautiful lichen. I think sometimes oaks shed limbs they somehow deem unnecessary. It's not just when a tree is ill or dying. So your oak may still be fine...?

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