Friday, June 12, 2026

Word And Picture Splatter


Here's Magnolia eating her fish and macaroni and cheese dinner. It all turned out quite well, including all the vegetables I cut up to go with it. Raw vegetables with ranch dressing seem to be the young ones' favorite vegetable side dish and that's fine with me. Sometimes I do the same for Glen and me when I become weary of the same five green vegetables and/or salads. Glen's as happy with it as the kids are and I really don't care one way or another. Raw cucumbers and carrots and cherry tomatoes or steamed broccoli? 
Pass the raw vegetables, please. I think if we call that a deconstructed salad it will get more respect. 
And by the way, those items of clothing on the old chest behind her were on the back of a dining room chair waiting for some mending assistance. That chest is sort of a catch-all for projects in process and art supplies and god knows what else. 

Maggie was a very, very good houseguest. After supper Boppy made her a purple cow which she enjoyed and then she took a bath in the big old clawfoot tub in my bathroom. After she was all cleaned and pajamaed and liberally patted down with my Caswell-Massey Elixir of Love dusting powder, she got into the bed and allowed me to read her two books. We read "The Owl and the Pussycat" in tribute to her mama's new tattoo and then we read "The Relatives Came" which she says I've never read to her before and I suppose she's right but Lord, I have failed her. 
She turned off her light at eleven which is early for her and she got up around 8:45 which is also early for her. The Hartmann's are taking summer vacation seriously. I think Owen stays up all night and sleeps most of the day but he's a teenager and that's what teenagers tend to do when they can get away with it. 
This morning Maggie wanted her pancakes and bacon and a cheesy omelet which I had first told her I wasn't going to make because pancakes and scrambled eggs should be enough, along with the bacon but of course I caved and made her a cheesy omelet which she did not like because it was TOO CHEESY. 
Sigh.
Mr. Moon finished it up for her. He's thoughtful and helpful like that. 

I washed the sheets and towels while she was still here and hung them on the line. I asked her if she wanted to help me hang laundry but shockingly, she said "No thanks." 
While I was doing that though, she got out some of the old toys and I was so happy when I found her in the Glen Den, playing with Lincoln logs and the little forest animals AND the Fisher Price farm. 


I had asked her if she still played with her dolls and she said "No, not really," which about broke my heart. 
I guess it's a lot to ask of a ten year old to still want to play with dolls. 
However, when I found that she had done this, I was more than a little thrilled.


She'd found Babar and Zippy and put them both in the high chair and I swear, I could cry. I don't know if she's still pretending or not and I know that if she is, it's not anything like the deep pretending she used to do where she'd get so involved with her doll and animal characters that I would think she was talking to me and when I'd ask, "What, honey?" she'd say, "Nothing. I'm just playing.

Playing. What could be more beautiful to a grandmother? To know that the child is capable of creating and living in different worlds, populated by stuffed animals and dolls has been one of the best parts of my life at this stage for sure and for certain. Is it any wonder that I am so very, very loathe to pass on the toys and the high chair? 
And the books! I was in the library today and while I was waiting to self check-out, a mother with three children was checking their books out and one of the books was "Danny and the Dinosaur." I have a copy of that book in my library and all of my kids and some of my grandkids have loved it. It was published in 1958 so it's hardly a new book and I was flabbergasted that not only did the library have a copy, but that someone was checking it out to read to her children. 
So how can I get rid of the children's books? 

Well. Eventually. Eventually I will have the strength and wisdom to pass on at least the toys. As for the books and the high chair- well, maybe not. Perhaps by the time I die, one of the grands will be having children of their own and they will want these things. 

Or is this just a grandmother's martini-fueled fever dream? 

I took Magnolia home and got to see Lauren and Gibson. Owen? Yeah, still in bed. Oh well. I've seen him this week and gotten some hugs so I'm good. Then I went by Hank and Rachel's to drop off Hank's birthday card and the "flat gift" within it. "Flat gift" is what we call money folded into an envelope. Or gift cards. You know. I didn't give it to him on Wednesday, the actual birthday, because somehow, between home and the restaurant I could not find it which caused a small amount of panic. I found it later underneath the front seat, safe and sound. 

I went to the library, I came home, I snapped more beans, I went out to the garden and took a few pictures. 


One of the candy-cane zinnias I planted is blooming and I could not be more delighted. I could, however, be more delighted with my old phone camera. I think I'm going to put this new one on ice and switch back to the old one. It is possible to take extreme closeups with this new one but it takes so much fiddling AND two hands and who has time for that mess? I do like the shadows of the open disk florets. I had to look that up. I would have just called them those little flowers within the flower. 


Oh, Zinnias! What joy you bring me. 


A not-too bad shot of a cucumber vine creating a cucumber flower. 
I think that's what it's doing. It could be trying to trap garden fairies and eat them for all I know. Whatever it truly is, it's pretty gnarly, isn't it? 


And another photo of a cucumber blossom. 

I got the sheets off the line, I made up the bed. I folded another load of laundry I'd put in the dryer and put that away. 
And I admired my new puzzle which got delivered today.




I cannot wait to get started and yet, at the same time, I want to work on my hibiscus. What an abundance of riches! 

I did have patching Mr. Moon's oldest overalls on the agenda but after studying them more closely, I have decided that no, they are done. There is no reason to attach good fabric onto completely worn out fabric. At this point it's no longer just one tear or rip, it's every square inch of the dear old things that are either holey already or trembling on the verge. 





Hell. The patches need patches. 
RIP you good and faithful servant. I shall cut off the hardware and then I do believe we should give these overalls a fine cremation on the burn pile pyre. 

Happy Friday, y'all. Mr. Moon's at the coast to spend the night with his buddy Alan so they can get an early morning start for a day of fishing on the Gulf. And so, alas, I have had to make my own martini. 
Luckily, it's not that hard.

Love...Ms. Moon




26 comments:

  1. Those flower photos are glorious. Could you incorporate the colours and shadows into pottery?
    I remember my parents buying me a doll for Christmas when I was ten and I was not thrilled. I would have preferred books. I played with it within their sight a couple of times so they thought I was happy with it. We were travelling and my mother was impressed that I hadn't complained about missing my dolls ... cos I wasn't! Magnolia is at the wonderful age between girlhood and womanhood. I hope she has an easy time of it.

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    1. Oh, thank you for telling that story. It says a whole lot about your parents and about you. How does a child, only ten years old, come to believe that making her parents happy is something that should and can be done?
      I get it.
      I think Maggie is perfectly content to be exactly where she is in her development. No one is trying to make her into anything she "should" be. And I doubt she will ever realize how lucky she is about that. But that's not what's important, is it?

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  2. I remember when I was about ten playing with a doll and mom saying oh, I didn't know you still liked dolls, I should have given you a new one! I was almost out of dolls then so it was okay.

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    1. Well you know, that was sweet of your mom. I honestly can't recall my mother ever noticing something like that.

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  3. Let me try my comment again.

    That candy cane zinnia is amazing. I have never seen one before.

    These grandkids and their growing up.owen being still in bed. Our William house sat for us while we're off getting our car stolen. I believe what he probably loved best was being his own man. He watched what he wanted. Went to bed when he wanted. We took him grocery shopping, but I showed him my stash of microwaveable Indian meals. He was quite excited about those. I also discovered that under that tall and gangly exterior lurks a very domesticated and orderly young man.


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    1. Oh man! That's so awesome, hearing about William house sitting. He was probably as upset about y'all coming home early as he was about you getting your car stolen. And you've given me confidence in asking Owen to house sit if we need him.

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  4. I remember our ironing board being the repository for clothes needing attention, usually just buttons or a hem restitched. I LOVE Babar and Ziggy in the highchair. Does Maggie have greenish hair this week or is it a trick of light somehow?

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    1. My ironing board is set up in that same room for emergency ironing situations. Ha! They come rarely.
      Nope. Maggie's hair is not green. Just the light, I guess.

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  5. Maggie is such a sweetheart. I have always preferred raw vegetables. The candy cane zinnia is stunning. Mr. Moon’s overalls look like they’ve survived several lifetimes. No fabric left to attach a path to.

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    1. Yes. When you find yourself patching patches, it may be time to let the garment go.
      I am hoping a get at least a few more candy cane zinnias. I planted a pack of them that I got at the Dollar General for 50 cents so there weren't that many seeds in it but if they all come up, I'll be getting some.
      Maggie sure can be sweet when she wants to. She kept saying, "I'm so glad you asked me to come and stay." And that makes a grandma happy.

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  6. Calling a plate of raw vegetables a "deconstructed salad" is an absolute stroke of genius, and I am definitely stealing that phrase for the next time I am too tired to toss a proper one. It sounds like Magnolia was the absolute perfect houseguest, even if she did humbled your cooking skills by declaring the omelet too cheesy! Your reflections on her setting up Babar and Zippy in the high chair are incredibly touching, and it makes complete sense why you are loathe to part with those toys and books when they still hold so much magic and connection. Hopefully Mr. Moon has a wonderful fishing trip on the Gulf, and you can thoroughly enjoy your evening, that new puzzle, and your perfectly self-made martini.

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    1. I really have no problem with a grandchild not liking something I've made. Especially when the issue is something like it being "too cheesy." Is that really possible? I suppose so. And I am of the belief that kids like what they like and shouldn't be forced to eat something they don't.
      You're right- those childhood things do have magical connections to me. The Zippy is just like one I had as a child myself and I loved him so dearly.
      Sounds like the guys caught fish so it must have been a good day.

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  7. Yes to grandmoms keeping toys and children's books around! The high chair can double as another place for the mending pile until another little one needs to use it. I continue to collect stuffies...what I've learned to call my stuffed dinosaur and otter etc. And I refuse to give away the little car my father made for my son, who never appreciated all the work he put into carving it out of wood, painting it with many coats of bright red paint, and wheels which work. These are treasures! Loved your flowers, and who knew that worn fabric looked so artistic!

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    1. That little car is a work of art and a work of love and as such, should be kept and cherished for sure.
      I love stuffed animals too. When I go into thrift stores, I often find myself straightening the ones there so that they all can be seen. Same with dolls. They need to be comfortable and displayed properly. And my old very imperfect dolls that have come to me in later life have to be covered properly when it's cold and uncovered when it warms up.
      I was a bit disconcerted to realize that the embroidery thread I used to border the patches on the overalls has disintegrated while the plain old sewing thread that I just used to baste the patches in place is still hanging in there.

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  8. Sweet Maggie looks delighted with her stay with you and Glen. Seeing her grow and develop her interests and preferences as well as helping her along the makes for very happy times.
    Your flowers are beautiful. Blooms make me happy too.
    I'd say GM got lots of wear out of those overalls. Your patches extended their life by a magnitude!

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    1. I am wondering what Maggie will choose to focus her life on. It should be interesting! I am so curious about all of the grandkids- where will their interests take them?
      You're so right about the patches. Those overalls would have been trashed years ago if I hadn't done a lot of patching.

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  9. It's nice to see the grands playing with the toys that my kids played with like your Maggie does. Mine still love the Legos and sometimes the play kitchen if their younger cousins are visiting.

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    1. Maggie told me that they're going to sell her doll house.
      Sigh. I mean, she's ready, no one is making her do this. Meanwhile, I saw some toy kitchens at Goodwill a few weeks ago that I was tempted to buy just for their charm. I may be in my second childhood.

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  10. I'm kicking my butt for not getting my zinnia seeds which I collected faithfully last year in the ground. Alas, no zinnias for me this year.

    I'm not a big fan of raw vegetables or rather, deconstructed salad. I love salads though so go figure. When my mother didn't feel like making dinner on a Sunday night (one of the maid/cook's day off) she would serve what she called 'cold cuts' which was an assortment of sliced sandwich meat and cheeses and bread for sandwiches and cut up vegetables. I hated those nights. I didn't like sandwiches because they were too dry and they were too dry because I couldn't tolerate the taste of Miracle Whip and I don't think mustard ever graced our house. I did eventually acquire a taste for mayonaise and eat plenty of sandwiches now.

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    1. What exactly is Miracle Whip anyway? What is it made of?

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    2. From Google's AI: Miracle Whip is a sweet, tangy spreadable condiment classified as a dressing. It shares base ingredients with mayonnaise but includes added sugar, starch, and spices to reduce the oil content

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    3. Ellen- I think you might still be able to get some zinnias planted and have them bloom before first frost. They're pretty fast growers this time of year.
      How sad to face a meal with things you did not like. I can't believe there was no mustard in your house. What? How white were your parents? EVERY ONE had a jar of French's.

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  11. I love the shot of the red zinnia. If that was the new phone camera, it did not fail you in that instance.

    Glad that Maggie had a good visit. I suspect she feels a need to revisit the toys and such because that's the pattern when she comes to your house, you know? I'm sure it brings her security to see and play with all her old favorite toys and books, even if her sense of play has matured. I laughed at the too-cheesy cheesy omelette. Kids!

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    1. Yep. That was the new phone's camera. It WILL take a decent macro but like I said there's a whole process involved and I have to get it just right or it won't work. And it takes two hands which is not, uh, handy when I'm trying to hold something still which frequently happens.
      Kids are the most traditional people on earth. Especially when it comes to grandparents' houses, I think.
      I am not sure that Maggie's complaint about the omelet being too cheesy was the real reason she didn't like it. She could easily have removed some of that cheese. Her grandfather was pretty happy to eat it though.

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  12. The new jigsaw looks quite daunting but reproducing such a nice image should be pretty satisfying. I am sorry that Mr Moon is so poor that he cannot afford to replace his holey overalls. Have you tried crowd funding? I feel sure that your blog mates will be happy to chip in.

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    1. Oh but surely you know the deep affection one can have for a well-broken-in, well proven pair of pants. Or shirt. Or overalls. It's a different sort of love but it is a sort of love.

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