Tuesday, December 30, 2025

The Tail End Of The Year Is Upon Us


The coconut palm our sweet landlord in Roseland gave me is struggling. I think it probably has culture shock, in the way that plants can have culture shock as in- the culture in Roseland is a lot warmer than the culture here although it may be just the shock of moving it that has it anxious. But Mr. Moon, of his own accord, got a bag of potting soil and repotted it for me in a much bigger plastic pot and that is another gift of love. 
I have been thinking all day that he's in Eufaula, Georgia but I just realized that although Lake Eufaula is in Georgia, Eufaula the town is in Alabama. He drove up there this morning to take his boat to get worked on and don't even ask me why he chose Eufaula but I am quite sure there was a good reason and he should be home any minute now.

He's texted and we've talked on the phone too, and he says it's a beautiful drive up there, back roads all the way, and that Eufaula is a pretty little town. He sent me a picture of his lunch and I'll bet you anything it was excellent in all regards. 


I just realized that the picture was taken from Glen's perspective and looks off to me because of his height. That's a long way down! In case you're wondering, the foods are, left to right, buttermilk pie, turnip greens, fried chicken, a corn muffin, lima beans, and rice and gravy. Sweet tea to drink. 
And that, my friends, is how they do it in these parts. Praise the Lord and pass the hot sauce. 

I went to the dermatologist this morning. I'd looked her up online last night and realized she was a PA (Professional Associate) and not an actual MD but that didn't bother me. What did bother me a tiny bit was that she looked like a high school freshman cheerleader in the photos I found. I mean, Rah! Rah! Bouncy-looking blonde hair! The works! 
But she didn't come off like that at all in the office. Very professional, pleasant, reassuring, and funny too. I mean, she's not going to be doing stand-up anytime soon based on what I saw today but she could could be jokey if it came to that in the conversation. She says my skin looks great except for the fact that I have all these age spots which are a genetic thing and also a sun-exposure thing. She did freeze two places on my face but wasn't concerned. I pointed out one rather dark spot I had noticed and she said, "Wisdom spot." 
"Wisdom spot?" I asked. 
"Yes," she said. "You're getting wiser."
See- I told you she could be a jokester. 
Her assistent who took all the notes was a beautiful young woman named Cherish. Isn't that just the nicest name? 
So that went well and then I went to a store that sells Indian spices and all those things that you can't find in regular grocery stores. What is the approved name for those stores? I used to say "Indian store" and many of the spices and foods are indeed what I would call Indian but is that correct? I just looked it up and the term seems to be Indian market. So. I went to the Indian market. There were lots of shoppers there today. Here's what I got.


I see now that the picture wasn't entirely in focus but oh well. I got the sesame and sunflower seeds for the chili crisp I want to make and I also got some munakka raisins which I've never had before but some chili crisps contain a bit of dried fruit and I thought I'd give these a try. I got the ginger paste because- why not? If it's good, I'll use it. 

When I got home I did a little bit more housework. Toilets, taking trash, and so forth. And then more jeans patching. Now I'm waiting for the man to get home and I'm going to make soup with some of those red lentils. I have half a cabbage, carrots, and a large leek which are some of the things going in it. 

I'm glad I'm going to see that urologist on Friday because I have a stone that's troubling me. This is a very constant story, isn't it? 
Ay yi. 

Tomorrow's New Year's Eve and I have no resolutions and no plans to make any. On New Year's Day we eat black-eyed peas and rice, collard greens and probably some cornbread. I had to fucking BUY collards this year. That's ridiculous. 
Oh well. They're pretty collards and not all cut up and in a bag.

So that's the plan. Do you have a plan? Do you have NYE traditions? I'd like to hear about them. 
I wish we could build a giant pagan fire, big enough to fill up Stonehenge and...
You know what I'd love to do with a fire that big but I'm a cowardly left wing scum. And I refuse to lower myself to the sort of rhetoric those nazis use. Except in their case, I am terrified it's not just rhetoric, it's their hopes and dreams and plans. 

Well. That got ugly quickly. Sorry. 

It's been a hard year. 

Love...Ms. Moon


44 comments:

  1. No traditions here, unless you count being in bed asleep when the ball drops. We had a party going into 2000. Remember the fuss about Y2K? My crazy son-in-law snuck down to the basement and cut off the power for a moment. We had one bottle of cheap champagne. Even the kids got a sip so we could toast the New Millennium. And here we are, dreading what is coming.

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    1. I do very much remember Y2K. I had a good friend who worked like a demon on a computer system at her state job to make sure everything unfolded as it should. And it did. I always think of her when I remember that time.
      I can't even think about what might come next without crying. I am not feeling optimistic at this moment.

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  2. As Carol said, we will also be in bed when the ball drops. We’re expecting ten more inches of snow. So, realistically, being in bed is the best move.
    All the best to you and the Mr. in the New Year! All the best to all of us who believe in democracy! Fuck the regime!

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    1. Being in bed is the only move as far as I can see with that much snow!
      FUCK THE REGIME! I'd shout that from the rooftops.

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  3. I always make red beans and rice, greens (mustard this year), and cornbread for dinner. I’ve been doing this for years. This year it’s lumpia with sweet and sour sauce for breakfast.Then hiding until the noise stops. XO Rebecca

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    1. Red beans are very good and I consider any bean to be eaten on NY's Day to be of equal value when it comes to luck. I want to see pictures of your lumpia!
      I just heard the first firework of the evening here go off. Can't wait for the rest.
      Love you, honey.

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  4. Very left-wing scum here! I'll be glad to help you with that 'fire' project!
    We call PA's here...Physicians Assistants. Many offices employ NP's
    (Nurse Practitioners) or DNPs (Doctor of Nursing Practice). I see more NP's here. Glad your derm appt. went well. Hope the Urologist can do some miracle work. Those damn stones!
    Wishing you a healthy new year and a gentle Maurice. OK...a healthy new year.
    Paranormal John

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    1. Yes, we have the NP's here too. I have a good friend I went to nursing school with who got her NP degree and I truly admire her for that. She was going through pregnancy and childbirth at the same time and she was not a young'un. She makes a pretty good living now but works very, very hard and very long hours.

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  5. We have over 6" of snow and wind in the forecast. I will be sitting in my jammies on NYE eating frozen appetizers I picked up at the store while drinking some Aldi white moscato. I am sleeping in and making pork chops and sauerkraut. Our tradition is a pork roast and sauerkraut but I forgot what I went to get at the store.

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    1. Forgetting what I went to the store for is a common occurrence for me these days. If I get to the store without my list, I might as well turn around and go home.
      Eating appetizers and drinking wine sounds good to me. As does any sort of pork with sauerkraut. One of the finest combinations ever.

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  6. Cornbread, black eyed peas and greens here too. I also burn a bayberry candle like my grandma did. “A bayberry candle burned to the socket brings joy to the heart and gold to the pocket”. More joy for all of us, please!
    Xoxo
    Barbara

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    1. I have read the word "bayberry" three times in blogs today. Is it a common New Year's thing?
      Yes. More joy would be excellent.

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  7. I know that in Canada, people from India are now usually referred to as South Asians. I thought that was the term you were looking for, so "market" caught me a bit off guard, LOL.

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    1. I suppose I could say I went to the South Asian market. I don't know. I went to the spice store. How about that? They sell a lot more than spices though.

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  8. I don't exactly celebrate New Year, but I observe it by doing all the laundry and getting the garbage out. Then I'm very smug on New Years day about how ready I am.

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    1. Well, I have done all the laundry and also taken the trash to the dump so I guess I'm ready. I still haven't taken down my Christmas decorations which are one string of battery-operated lights (miniature) and the string of Vintage santa lights. Even that amount of a holiday chore is more than I feel like dealing with.

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  9. I consider Solstice to be the flip of the new year. January first is just a new calendar in this house.

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    1. Makes sense to me. I don't give the day much attention either. Some, I guess.

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  10. I know exactly what (who) you want to barbecue in that giant fire at Stonehenge. I have no NY traditions, nor do I make resolutions. Tonight I'm having half of a home made pizza for dinner and the other half will be my welcome to 2026 dinner tomorrow. Wisdom spot? I've never heard of that one.

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    1. I know you know. Roast pork on a spit. Sounds right, doesn't it?
      Your pizza dinners sound perfect. I haven't made pizza in awhile. I need to do that.

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  11. It's been a hard year for a lot of people, hasn't it. Let's hope 2026 turns the tables on all that shizzle!
    No tradition here. Just gratitude to have been above ground for another year, even if its been hard.
    Whatever is coming, law of averages says there will be sunny days, sitting in the garden, gin and tonics, good food and a sprinkle of joy. Here's hoping. Happy new year, Mary. Thankyou for your wise words, angry words and downright hilarious words. You are a shining light in a dark sky. Xx

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    1. Oh, Christina. Thank you so much! You brightened my day considerably with your words.
      I wish I had more hope that 2026 will be any better than 2025. If it has to get worse before it gets better, we are fairly fucked. Well, time will tell. But you are right. There will be good days for each of us. There has to be. I wish many for you.

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  12. I stay home on NYE now that I'm free to make my own choices. Things get really expensive (restaurants, taxis) and I really don't want to go anywhere anyway or be on the roads after all that partying so home it is for me - just the way I like it. I've been to Stonehenge and I have to admit I was disappointed as I imagined it much much bigger than it actually is (a bit like the pyramids in Egypt). Still, I'm sure there is much fascinating stuff about the whole set up - but I just seemed to have missed it!!! Happy New Year to the Moon family!

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    1. We always called New Year's Eve "Amateur Night," which is what a musician friend of ours called it. And it is, isn't it? All those people out there partying and driving and it's just a stupid night to go out for the most part but the young will do it and I did it too.
      I had a feeling Stonehenge might not be that big but it seemed like an appropriate space to burn the enemies of humanity in.

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  13. I imagine that upon your Stonehenge bonfire you wish to roast potatoes wrapped in aluminium foil or maybe sweet chestnuts. Either would be nice. I hope that Admiral Moon made it back to harbour okay.

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    1. No, neither of those things. As I said to River- roast pork on a spit. Lots and lots of roast pork. Although that is an insult to pigs which are very fine animals.
      Yes. Mr. Moon made it home safely.

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  14. I sent you a link on Facebook. Happy new year.

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  15. Wisdom spots! About time, well earned.

    Here, we get to suffer through massive and at times dangerous fireworks, starting around midday and until the early hours of new year's day as it's the only time of the year when anybody can buy fireworks and let them off in their garden, their front door etc. and every year there are many traumatic accidents, awful noise, frightened pets and wildlife and air so thick that people with COPD suffer to the point of needing A&E and a huge mess to clean up the next day. Every year we have opinion polls showing that the majority wants to stop this and have laser shows or drone shows or whatever instead but the conservatives and the fireworks lobby call it tradition. It's our version of gun control.
    In Ireland, you go outside at midnight and all the church bells ring.
    In the little African country we lived in for a while, people burst tons of balloons at midnight but if it's raining, they stay home and do it the next night.
    Happy new year to you and your family!

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    1. Ooh boy. That sounds like a mess! Here in Florida we're not supposed to be able to buy "real" fireworks, just the more dinky, less powerful ones but people do go to other states and buy them illegally. Of course. This is Florida.
      Ireland's celebration sounds quite lovely, really, despite my lack of love for churches. And the little African country? Now THEY are sensible. I love that!
      Happy new year to you and yours, too, sweet woman.

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  16. Keeping my head in the sand sometimes has made me aware that others suffered much more from "the news" than I did this year. Of course the real events which made many people incarcerated, or pardoned were much more unbelievable. May all this suffering cease for next year...and our leadership shift to responsible people! Happy new year to you and your loved ones!

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    1. Thank you, Barbara. I can't seem to be able to entirely keep my head in the sand although I do think of my friend Kathleen who was eternally optimistic and who always said that she just carried her own bucked of sand around with her so she'd always be able to stick her head in it.
      It has been a hard and tragic and horrific year for many. We have all been affected, one way or another. I like the way that you continue to post quite positive and yet not cliched words and reminders. We need that. We really do. Thank you.
      And Happy New Year to you and your dear ones too.

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  17. I used to always make spring rolls for New Year's Eve but that has fallen by the wayside. I taught my Canadian born, Chinese girlfriend how to make them many years ago, her husband thought that was hilarious. She would have been 60 had she lived, she never made it past 49. I miss her still.
    When I was even younger, I loved going out on New Year's Eve, drinking and dancing, definitely cannot be bothered with that anymore. We'll watch "Suits" and go to bed at our regular time.
    We have a large Punjabi community in Edmonton and the Walmart in Katie's neighborhood has all kinds of spices, an excellent place with very knowledgeable ladies to help out if you have any questions. I made a curry last month and needed some specific spices and the ladies of Walmart helped me out.
    Have a Happy New Year. Lets hope next year is better.

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    1. I hate losing the people I love. It's horrible and we never quite get over it, never forget them, never quit missing them. That's a great story about teaching your friend how to make spring rolls. A memory to cherish, for sure.
      Yes, I used to love to dress up and make up and go out on NYE. Funny how I have NEGATIVE desire to do that now.
      Our Walmarts here have lots of Mexican spices and foods. I love the idea of being able to find your Indian spices at your Walmart. AND advice to go with.
      Yes. May this next year bring us a little more light, a little more joy.

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  18. What a year it's been. We've all struggled to various degrees, I think. Here's hoping next year will be an improvement. For some reason I'm not really feeling the whole NYE and NYD stuff this year. Usually I have champagne at midnight and then cook the obligatory black eye peas and greens on the first, but none of that sounds appealing to me. I might just do nothing. Sigh.

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    1. I think I'm going to cook peas we grew in the garden that are in the freezer instead of dried ones this year. That sounds okay, doesn't it? But I completely understand your disinterest in celebrating. What are we celebrating? A coming up year that is possibly worse than this one?
      Maybe not. We can hope. But what we do or do not do tonight and tomorrow will have no effect on any of it. So do what makes you most comfortable. And know I wish you and your sweet man joy and light, despite all, next year and always.

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  19. Tonight my husband will watch the Ohio State v. University of Miami college playoff football game. Go Buckeyes! I'll putter around and start taking down Christmas decorations. Our New Year's Day meal will be pork ribs on the grill with homemade BBQ sauce, Hoppin' John (I found fresh collard greens, too, and they are beautiful!), spinach casserole, saurkraut, and cornbread. Thank you for your blog. You are a wonderful storyteller and reading your posts transports me to your lovely home where we could be having a cup of tea with honey, talking about whatever - food, family, gardening, husbands, maybe politics (I put my head in the sand to keep my inner peace.) Happy New Year to you, Ms. Moon.

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    1. And Happy New Year to you, Diaday. I imagine there will be football around here tonight or at least tomorrow. I do not know enough about who's playing to have even the vaguest idea about any of it. But, it matters to a lot of people.
      Your meal sounds like all the best of the traditions. I love ribs cooked in the pressure cooker with sauerkraut. That was one of the best things my mother cooked but we never had those on NY's.
      Thank you for what you said about my blog. That makes me feel very happy, knowing that you enjoy reading it. Please feel as if we ARE on the porch, drinking tea. Or a martini. Whatever!

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  20. Getting a cold at the end of this year (the only christmas present I got) was just the fucking cherry on the top of the most horrible year I have lived through in and of this country. And to think it was just the first of a scheduled four. Will there be anything left? But hope springs eternal and maybe after the midterms us cowardly left wing scum may be able to put a stop to some of it.

    It was supposed to dip below freezing early this morning so the hour before sunset saw me out there covering the queen of the night and dragging a few things into the garage and a few little things into the house.

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    1. I KNEW you wouldn't let your plants root hog or die. I know you by now, Ellen. You and I are a mess when it comes to our plants although I am getting a bit less worried about mine. Plus, I have realized that even if a plant looks frozen, dead, and gone, if given time, it will probably put forth new growth eventually. But not all! And of course I wrapped all my plants before our possible freeze and it did indeed freeze last night but not badly.
      Please get better soon and yes, may there be a rising up of the cowardly left wing scum to sweep the halls of government clean. Or at least give us a little hope.

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  21. Another "left wing scum" guy here, wishing you and all of the Moon clan a happy and peaceful 2026. Keep the faith!

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    1. I think we should not call this blog space The Church of the Batshit Crazy, Left Wing Scum Denomination, and please Bless Our Hearts.
      Lord knows we need some blessing.
      Yes. Let us keep the faith.
      Happy New Year, Jim.

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  22. Hello Mary, still reading and enjoying your posts and I would like to wish you and your family a happy and peaceful new year. Keep well and take care. Lynda (UK)

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    1. Thanks for dropping in, Lynda. I really appreciate that you are here. Peace to you and yours, too.

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