Monday, July 7, 2025

Getting Stuff Done


When we were in Monticello a few weeks ago, we walked by a big planter in front of the recently closed flower shop which is sad as that shop has been there ever since I first lived in Jefferson County back in the mid-seventies. It was a great flower shop and they sold plants too and gifts. You know how that goes. But I guess the owners finally came to the place where they just couldn't or wouldn't keep it going. 
Which is all to say that the planter had a lot of flame lilies growing in it. Now I know that as with all lilies, they must be propagated via the bulbs or tubers but digging a bulb out of a planter, even one connected to a business that was, as we stood there, being dismantled, seems a little over the top. 
I do not normally thieve plants at all. I just don't. There are a lot of rules I do not mind breaking but when it comes to theft, I am almost unable to bring myself to do it. But in this case, I plucked a little shoot off the many that were growing and because it was beautiful, I put it in a bottle and set it in the sunny window in the little bathroom off the kitchen. And you know what? I think it's going to bloom! It's actually got two little buds on it. 

Now. Having said all of that, I did pinch a succulent from a planter in front of the store where we bought the rug but in my defense, I tried to ask the guy running the store if he minded if I did that but when I went back in to ask him, he was on the phone and it seemed as if he was going to be on the phone for a long, long time so I just did it. There were probably at least a hundred of the pretty little succulents growing in that planter so I figured it could spare one. 

This is its temporary home until I get around to figuring out which pot I want to put it in. 

I got so many things done today. Well, for me. Things I've been needing to do before we leave town next week. I texted our usual house-sitter who is a dream of a house sitter, and he can do five days. I'll find someone else to at least come in and visit with Maurice and make sure her feeder and waterer are working for the rest of the days. She is going to hate us being gone but life is hard. 
I rescheduled a cleaning at my dentist's office which was going to happen the week we'll be in North Carolina, and I called the pharmacy that makes my bio-identical hormones to see if my damn doctor (not my beloved Dr. Zorn!) had finally called in a refill on my prescription because I am down to my last half of a dose and things are not great when I don't get my hormones. I had called in to the pharmacy a week and a half ago and they had faxed the doctor's office twice with no response. This always happens. The pharmacy makes up the prescription to be ready as soon as the doctor signs off on it and then we wait. I called myself on Thursday and wasn't sure at all that the person I talked to was truly going to get the message across to whoever needed to hear it but that must have worked because the refill had been sent in and my precious hormones were ready for pick-up. I have got to find another provider who will prescribe those for me. Since so many celebrities are going through peri-menopause and menopause and speaking up and speaking out about those topics, I have a feeling that a whole lot more women are demanding some hormones to keep themselves from melting down or flaming out. 
I have to say this is a good thing. Women have spent way too many years without having the information we need when we reach these times in our lives which cause major changes in our bodies and in our minds and by god, that needs to stop right now. One of the things women are realizing is that peri-menopause and menopause itself have been sadly under researched and women have been getting the most ridiculous and absolutely non helpful advice from doctors since Eve told Adam to fuck off because she wasn't putting up with his shit one second more. 

So that was that. I went to town and got my hormones and now the world is safe from my ire and the possibility of my spontaneous combustion. For another month, at least. 

Another thing I needed to do was to go by my optometrist's office to get my prescription and then go to Costco to order a pair of sunglasses. 

Y'all. 

Here are the frames I picked out. 


They were about the cheapest frames there and without a doubt, the most glittery. They sparkle with such great intent! 
I am both shocked that I'd choose them, and hoping they get here quick, quick because I want to wear them! 

On to Publix where I did a small bit of shopping. Then finally home where I picked the garden. 



I know you're tired of looking at my produce. Oh well. That's the way it goes. In winter you get pictures of camellias and in summer you get pictures of green beans. 

Mr. Moon has headed back up to Lake Seminole to do whatever it is he is doing there this week. As he was sitting on the bed today, pulling out things from his drawer (the dresser is quite close to the bed) I came in and said, "I always feel like you're leaving me when you're packing up." I wasn't really serious but he threw himself back on the bed and said, "Oh god! If I were leaving you, I'd be packing better clothes than these!"
He had a point. Old, old t-shirts and raggedy shorts. 

He just sent me a few pictures and now I remember what he was doing. Mowing. Or at least that's what he did today. 


It all looks very good except for this.


Do you see what I see? 
CROCOSMIA! 

I'd rather have an infestation of alligators. 

I'm going to go make some tofu curry.

Love...Ms. Moon




43 comments:

  1. May we take it that you do not like crocosmia? I can't understand why. In England we generally call it montbretia. Perhaps in Florida's sub-tropical growing conditions the plant thrives rather too much. Love the new glasses.

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    1. When I read that crocosmia is native to South Africa where it grows in the grasslands, it made a lot more sense to me about why it gets so out of control here.

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  2. I will bet Mr. Moon planted that bit of crocosmia there, carefully framed it in the shot, knowing full well that the mere sight of it would goad you into a fiery determination to weed it out before it takes over. His little way of getting his gal to the new house!

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    1. You think? Hmmm...
      I'm thinking that putting in a new stove up there will work better.

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  3. Your post made me realise that never, ever, not once has a doctor discussed hormones or asked if I had any menopausal symptoms. Do your hormones help the mental side of things?
    The new house surrounds are looking lovely. Even with the crocosmia.

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    1. Yes. Hormones absolutely do help with the mental side of things.
      It is pretty there but I haven't really learned to appreciate it yet.

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    2. I gave up HRT about 6 years ago and haven't noticed any difference at all.

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  4. I don't know...I wonder if pinching succulents might lead to robbing banks-total gateway behavior! :D And the way you described your bio-identical hormones reminded me of Gollum with the ring? My goodness. But, I get it. Ugh. Peri. Hi! The crocosmia is something I tried to achieve and can't, so that's funny it's invasive to you. And the glasses are very much you. Sparkly, like your favorite eyeshadow. Very Ms. Moon glasses. Costco, get on it!

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    1. You're right. Once I've crossed that thievery line I might just become a true criminal. Next thing you know I'll be Oceans Elevening it all over Europe.
      I know. I want my new glasses!

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  5. I love those glasses and now I want new, sparkly glasses. I'll have to wait on that.
    Look at you, going all "girls gone wild" in Florida, pinching off pieces of plants and god only knows what else:)
    I wish my husband would go away for a few days, or a week, so that I could miss him and appreciate him all the more, but he's here. Next week I am leaving for Vancouver though, got that to look forward to.
    Hope you had a good night and a good day.

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    1. I promise you- I'm not stealing anything else. Well, maybe those wooden chopsticks if someone at my table doesn't use theirs. Those might get slipped into a purse.
      I am so glad you're getting to go off by yourself next week.

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  6. Taking a few cuttings/small plants does no harm. That's my justification for traveling with a shovel and bucket. I usually, but not always ask if I can have a small plant and people are generally agreeable. Some show surprise when I take out my bucket and shovel!
    Like me, you'll surely give all your newest rescued cuttings/plants a great home.
    The crocosmia seems to be next to some lovely ferns. On my property, I mow around large beds of ferns to keep invaders out and it works well.

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    1. That's so funny! You are serious about getting bits of plants to bring home! I love it!
      I do love ferns and there used to be a lot more in this yard but all the invasive plants have choked them out. Mostly.

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  7. Taking slips from plants is healthy for them. It's also known as pruning. So there.

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    1. You are exactly right! I'm just doing those plants a favor.

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  8. I suggest you make strong hints about getting that crocosmia dug out before it begins to take over!
    With succulents, you don't need to steal whole plants, even tiny ones, you can just nip off a leaf and place it in moist soil, it will grow roots and then whole new plants. I have a whole hedge of Jade (Crassula) and when I moved to this area there weren't any in other gardens but now there are plenty and I know they are mostly from pieces taken off my plants and I don't mind at all.
    I remember years ago when my mum went out walking she always carried a basket and had scissors in her pocket, she'd snip a bit here, a bit there...if anyone was in their garden she would ask first, but if no one was around, snip-snip. I can't do that myself from private gardens, I have to ask even if it means knocking on doors. Mostly I'll take a photo and take that to the nearest nursery to see if they have it or can get it for me.

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    1. I should really pick up a shovel, a trowel, and some clippers for that house so that I can piddle about the yard.
      Yes, I know that about succulents but if you can take a larger piece, the odds of it rooting are better. I am not the best with succulents.
      I cannot even imagine an entire hedge of jade.
      Your mother was bold!

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  9. When I think how awful my mom was going through what I now realize was menopause I feel so, so sorry for her. My doctor put me on HRT as I started menopause at the same time I was going through my divorce. It was FANTASTIC. I became human again and really hated it when I came off them five years later. I can't help thinking if men had to go through it there would have been a "solution" found much sooner!

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    1. Hurray for your doctor!
      Every time I try to wean myself off the hormones I become a weepy, hot flashing mess who has far less bladder control.
      You are so right about what menopause treatment would look like now if men went through it.

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  10. On the positive side, at least those crocosmia are flowering !

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  11. The lily and the succulent are saying thank you. Did Mr. Moon plant the crocosmia just for you? Next comes the bamboo! I’d love to see you in your new sparkly glasses.

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    1. Oh god. If I start seeing bamboo grow in that yard I give up. I'm moving to south Florida where they have cement yards and rock gardens. (Not really.)

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  12. Crocosmia is a garden plant here, and a delicte one you have to tend to and take care of for it not to die in our wet and cold winters ;) I just read about it, it said: Care intensive, slowly spreading, but worth the while with its firey flowers. Climate makes all the difference.
    Could you ask Mr. Moon to dig out those few before they spread and the mow, mow, and mow again?

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    1. I am not sure of ANYTHING that can't be invasive here! It's insane! Okay, probably not roses, although I have some roses that are totally out of control. One of us better dig up those dang plants and then yes, Glen can just mow them down.

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  13. In our house we call these kind of glasses "whoah glasses". Excellent choice!

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    1. I think that if I'm ever going to have a glittery style, I'd better start now. Gold eye shadow, golden glasses.

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  14. I seriously think your open/ frank discussions about menopause helped me advocate for myself better with my Dr! ty ty ty ty (from Tony as well plus all the kiddos i'm sure). as far as plants, we have some iris and rose champion that came from other people's yards- the iris came from tony's childhood home mean next door neighbor and the rose campion from a vacant house near us.... so no shame in that game here! xxalainaxx

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    1. I am SO glad that I was able to help you with that. Since all the celebrities are talking about it now, women are becoming more educated and let's hope that doctors and other practitioners are too.
      So. What you're saying is that you are a plant thief? What next? Will you start taking restaurant silverware home with you?
      I doubt it.

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  15. The mown grass looks pretty, and please don't hate me for saying this, but the red crocosmia flowers are pretty too! And anyway, it's Glenn's problem, right? lol ;)

    Your new glasses will suit you, I think. I love the sparkly frames! And hooray for the hormones.

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    1. I don't think those glasses flatter me and I'm sure they're not really sturdy enough to be sunglasses but fuck it. I like them.
      I don't hate you for saying that about the crocosmia. The blooms are pretty.

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  16. Well, at least it's blooming, not that that is much consolation. So busy day. Can't you get Owen, not that he drives and all, to come take care of Maurice? Oh, and that little succulent is what we call Hens and Chickens because pretty soon it will have lots of little chicks underneath. Every 'leaf' that falls off will create a new plant.

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    1. I just discussed with Lily whether or not she thought Owen was old enough to come stay here by himself. It would probably be best if we waited until he can drive.
      I've also heard that plant called "Mother of Millions." I like Hens and Chickens better though.

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    2. I meant now that he can drive. I thought he got his license. Just the learner's one I guess. Mother of millions is a different plant that spawns new one along the edges of every leaf.

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  17. What will happen to your garden produce while you are gone? Will the house sitter pick it all and use it up? I agree with Ellen that Owen could come over to see to Maurice and pick produce for his family.

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    1. Probably whatever grows while we're gone will just rot on the vine. Not that many people are as crazy as I am when it comes to going out in the heat to pick.

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  18. Your new glasses have shades of Randy Rainbow vibes!

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  19. Ha! That crocosmia is following you! Perhaps the Georgia clay and/or colder temperatures will keep it better in check. It doesn't look like an infestation. Yet.

    I love your new glasses!

    And you know I'd go right back and dig out every one of those lily bulbs, at least if I was certain the planter was going to be discarded. But I'm insane that way.

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    1. Why anyone in this whole region plants crocosmia is a mystery to me. I haven't even checked the dirt there to see what it's like. I'm thinking probably not clay because of the lake. We'll see.
      I hope I love my new glasses too!
      I believe that maybe the planters are more of a city thing than a personal business thing. Not sure about that.

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  20. Add me to the list of people who love the glasses you chose! I’ll need a new pair this year and was hoping for something in green. Now, i think your sparkly pair may be a better choice.

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  21. That is a lovely Cabin, even in spite of the much dreaded Crocosmia. *LOL* And those Glasses are Fun, I like them.

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